Why most of the love are not succeeded?

Question

Why most of the love are not succeeded?

Answer 1

1>Misunderstanding

2>Ego

3>Should learn to give up/ sacrifice

Most of all imagine yourself in the shoes of others, life will be easy for you as well others...! :)

Answer 2

Love is an emotion.  It exists in human experience alongside hatred, fear, guilt, regret, joy, anticipation, excitement, anger, wonder, envy, greed, jealousy, gratitude, admiration and sadness.

None of these emotions normally lasts a lifetime.  With the passage of days, months and years they diminish or become accepted within your mental state.  The only way to regain new joy, wonder, excitement is to experience new events and activities.  The same is true for anger, sadness and fear; new situations bring them back into our consciousness.

So, love is in the same category whether it be based on affection, passion, or excitement.  To expect it to last unchanged for a lifetime is unrealistic.  If love is based on novelty and excitement, then it will alter and diminish more quickly than if it based on affection and wonder.

If you're lucky, love based on novelty and excitement can be transformed into love based on affection, admiration and wonder.  Then it can last a long time; maybe a lifetime.  Otherwise, it is realistic to expect love to decline and eventually to disappear, just like the other emotions.

Sad, isn't it?  Poets, songwriters, novelists and some therapists have mis-led us into thinking that lifelong love is normal.  Get real and search out affection and admiration for a longlasting emotion.  For a quick fix of excitement and passion, forget about love as a description of what you feel.

Answer 3

who said man? it is upon you.

Answer 4

cozz....in this mordern world most of them r not sincere 2 thier girls........TRUE LOVE live ever lasts.....

Answer 5

because people like enjoyment not love.

Answer 6

because ppl get bored w. eachother.

Answer 7

Bcoz of misunderstandings.

Answer 8

It is design of nature that in any field 100% success is impossible. Love is not an exception

Answer 9

it is a universal fact that every human being has two basic personalities,good and bad or positive or negative. what happens in love in the beginning is that we tend to focus more on positive aspect of his/her lovers personality and tend to ignore the other aspect. gradually with the passage of time that very loves becomes a part of our lives and we tend to look at over all aspect of his personality. it is here that we learn that picture is not as rosy as it appeared in the beginning. consequently love begins to dwindle.

Answer 10

only telling type of love

Answer 11

Because of being theoretical.

Pushker

Answer 12

because it is not the way of life, rather it is a method of  enjoyment.

Answer 13

Lack of honest/open communication.

One or both partners do not truly share themselves to one another- not being genuinely sincere.

Sometimes, it's the nature of the people in the environment. If selfishness is the way of life, meaning, everything is about "ME! ME! ME!" and no one else on earth matters except for materialism, what makes one think that he/she will EVER truly find deep/unconditional love?

Answer 14

if its one love then its cos of lack of confidence n believe in urself that u wil get her /him

if its both sided it can b due to lack of trust or misuderstanding

but overall its fate

Answer 15

Oh this is not true....I believe in true love & it being sucessful..well its more about what you expect out of it because too much of expectation leads to sadness & frustration in life.I believe in this "LOVE WITHOUT A REASON LASTS FOREVER"

Answer 16

if some misunderstandings , igo problems and some doubts comes in to the love then it will never success.

best of luck!!

keep smiling:))))