Why must we deal with our sexuality?

Question

I find my sexuality the most annoying part of my life. It's just this constant internal pressure. IT's just annoying cause I have extreme goals so I don't have time for anything except what I need to do to meet my goal. Why are we given this challenge, it's so annoying.

Answer 1

Because of puberty.

Want to stop dealing with it?  Get a vasectomy.

Answer 2

1Cr 7:7 I wish everyone could get along without marrying, just as I do. But we are not all the same. God gives some the gift of marriage, and to others he gives the gift of singleness.  

Hbr 13:4 Give honor to marriage, and remain faithful to one another in marriage. God will surely judge people who are immoral and those who commit adultery

God says if you like s*x, you need to get married.  

Answer 3

Might I suggest embracing this sexuality?

Answer 4

Constant pressure?  Why not just relieve it, then?

Answer 5

Use the pressure as a motivator.  It is energy.  Many great men and those with extreme goals have put the urges aside to find themselves pushed by the energy that is retained.  If you aren't able to work 18 to 20 hours a day you might  take up a serious sport like running or tennis (if you don't already).  You will notice other highly motivated people doing similar things.  It might seem like this is more time taken but it actually increases the number of productive hours in the day as your mind will be clearer and you will have more stamina.  If you are running you can still do other work related things.  You could also fit some s*x into the situation and still be great, others have done that as well, mostly by keeping it its place and out of their careers but not always (see Hugh Hefner).  Good Luck with the FTL and Moon base. If I didn't help, I did try.

Answer 6

My goals include sexual aspects, so my life rocks.

Answer 7

Our sexuality has been bestowed upon us so that we will procreate at this level of our existence as nature intended.

For most of us, it is an irresistible impulse and it often gets in the way.

I doubt if we'll be appropriately equipped for it in the afterlife!

Answer 8

Oh.... i know... try fasting... i think you are concentrating too much on it....

i think nothing.. no force on earth can stop you from achieving these goals if you want to...so.... place your total faith in God, and yourself.. and i think you can do anything...

All the Best...:-)

Answer 9

masturbation relieves a lot of stress.

i hear it also benefits to the immune system.

Answer 10

The ultimate answer is: if someone else hadn't dealt with THEIR sexuality, YOU wouldn't be here in the first place!

Answer 11

We are what we are. Humans are sexual beings.

Why deny your very existence for some goal that may be superfluous?

Answer 12

If you do not deal with it, it causes you internal struggle. s*x is a natural part of life, meant to be enjoyed between two consenting adults who care for each other and are committed to each other.

Answer 13

It's just a part of life babe. Continue focusing on the goals you need to do...try not to find yourself thinking inappropriate thoughts...but remember you are human!

Answer 14

Lofty goals, but the best of us need a break now and then. I hope you reach them, but space travel will take care of itself, and you need to take care of yourself. The best option would be to find a good woman that shares your goals. Not easy, but I assume that she is out there. That does involve waiting, though. Perhaps, in the mean time, you should just try to focus harder on the goals before you. Direct your mind, don't let it direct you.