Why must women curse people who do bad to them, even to his/her family members?

Question

for example: "okay, he did this to me.. he should remember that he has a daughter".

why must an innocent kid be cursed to face troubles out of her father's mistakes? i certainly believe that every unfortunate things we face are the result of our own mistakes, not any of our family member's. back to the story, if she(the daughter) then grow up into a mean person just like her dad, then the curse would make sense, as it could be that the pains resulted from her own bad doings too. but how if she grew up into a very kind, religious and tolerance person who always respect, give more than take, always do good to others and even being honest in all of her good deeds? isn't it unfair if she still got to face huge miseries ..."out of her father's mistakes"?

i just don't understand why must many grown up adults, especially women go with this c**p ideology. this also shows that women somehow enjoy abusing other women without they realize it.

Answer 1

1. All women don't curse people.

2. Cursing is not limited to women.

3. You are assuming that the so-called curse will actually harm the daughter.

4. What c**p ideology are talking about?

5. What makes you think women are particularly drawn to it or that they unknowingly abuse other women? If the woman does really curse the daughter she knows exactly what she is doing. It is not w/o realizing it.

This is obviously an specific case but if the above is an exact quote it doesn't really indicate that she is cursing the daughter. To me it sounds like, "Why does he treat women in this way. Would he want someone to treat his daughter like this."

In my experience (having been a woman for 55+ years) this is not typical female behavior. It is an isolated incident which you might not even be interpreting correctly.

Curses frequently backfire on the person who creates them. They have the most power if you believe in them.

Answer 2

>This ideology is called blame shifting; an opportunity for anyone [not only women] to relieve themselves from any accountability for their part in the wrong doing or suffering.  

>"out of her father's mistakes"  could be a generational curse.  Ever noticed some people keep making the same mistakes over and over and over again.  The children of those people witness those mistakes and many times repeat them.  Until an individual becomes aware of those mistakes or patterns of behavior the cycle will continue.

>I agree that as a society that we don't realize the frequency of these occurrences, I am amazed by the desensitization of our society.  

>Wow.  Thank God there's freedom in forgiveness.  Amen.

God bless you.

Answer 3

Sexist, much?

Answer 4

I have no  clue to what you're trying to express or say. Could you clarify?

Answer 5

You don't get the meaning behind that statement he should remember that he has a daughter means that his daughter sees what he is doing and thinks that's the correct way for men to treat women, and will therefore pick a man just like him as a potential spouse. and will get mistreated just as badly. Women don't curse men, its the men who curse themselves for mistreating women.

Answer 6

not everyone is like that, and those who are choose to be so it is not a curse, it is a choice.

Answer 7

I take it that you're venting? Glad you're done.

Not everyone is like that.

Answer 8

This seems rather situationally specific. To generalize that women do this is absurd.