Why my dad pinning me up?:S

Question

Well I'm being made to stay at my dads house for a week and a half,its been about 3 days and i just really want to go home!Hes already pinned me up by the neck and i had marks over my neck for a while,he put a knife to himself and always punches his head,hes always shouting 'i hate you' e.c.t. and just shouts.I told my mum i really hate it here and to pick me up and she said no and if u don't buck up your ideas then ill put you in a home you little bit**.I can't go out because no money and my mates live to far away..ive got ages left yet.

and i feel as if I'm trapped!

By the way my dads a alcoholic and my mum smokes weed.

i like it better at my mums because she just leaves me alone,even if i dont really get on with her at least i have my space,and its near my mates.

help?x

sorry for re posting just did'nt write in last details

Answer 1

Oh my gosh, I'm really sorry to hear all this.   What do you mean pinned you up by the neck?  That definitely doesn't sound legal at all.  To me it sounds like he's drinking and then he's abusing you.   What your mom said is horrible, too.  Your dad has a serious alcohol problem if he's putting his knife to his neck and shouting.    It sounds unsafe for you to be there.  I don't know how old you are, but if you you hate it there and don't feel safe, and have an Aunt or neighbor or something, you could call one of them and ask to get you out of there.    

But if your dad hurts you like that again where you have a bunch of marks on you, definitely call the police.  He is NOT allowed to do that.  No father should do that to their child.

I'm really sorry you have to go through that.   If you have any other questions or need to rant, you can email me.   [e-mail]

Take Care!

- Mike.