Why my family is pushing me so hard? especially my bro and my uncle?

Question

just because they want me to be successful? but i only think they are making me stress full! i try to convince them but they just can't under sand that! i am still young for that and my friends also agree with that. but seems like my family don't think so. why? it is just so hard to deal with them!

Answer 1

How old are you?  Just do the very best that YOU can .  Listen but ignore what they have to say unless it makes sense to you.  I know that sometimes it makes things so much harder when you are pushed.

Answer 2

AH  i know what you mean.  I dont know what they want you to be succesfull in, but for me it was football ( soccer).  And they always pushed me and nagged me.  And i told them i need they're support not them trying to make my decisions for me.  But believe me they are only intending GOOD, because they knwo u have talent, go with it  

Answer 3

Maybe they just don't want you to be a failure in life. They just want you to pretty much want to be successful. And if that's not the answer you should just go ask them why they're giving a hard time.

Answer 4

they just want a better life for you than they had

Answer 5

Your family all want the best for you, if they are older (which I'm gathering they are) they may have now realised that doing well at a younger age really pays off.  Try speaking to the and telling them that you are finding it hard to concentrate because you are worried you wont live up to their expectations. Just try and be happy they care enough to push you.  If they didn't care at all, it would hurt you more.

Hope that helps xx