Why my husband wants some of his stuff every week?

Question

My husband and I separated in May and he lives with his mother. Recently, we began talking again and seeing each other. One week he called me and said he needs "some of his stuff". I reacted by bringing most of it thats at my new house.

2 weeks later he called me wanting just his guitar pedal (he is a musician, same as me). He did not want anything else and got down right hurt when I brought more.

Is it possible he just wants an excuse to see me? Because he flat out doesn't want all his stuff, and its still @ my house.

Answer 1

Tell him to poo or get off the pot. He can only have it both ways if you allow it. You deserve better than that.

Answer 2

Yep that's it ;now you have to decide if you want to keep seeing him and maybe work thing out otherwise dump him and all of his stuff

Answer 3

yes he still loves you woman! and I think you do to

Answer 4

you will have to feel him out, see what his intentions are, there will be a pattern of the things that he will be doing to get your attention, or your bring his stuff to him, question why? cant he come get things if he wanted to see you, the next time he call hold off on bringing him his thing see if he will come get it, if he does not come get it, he can not face you or he is ashamed of something so need to find out ask question that is still your husband, and  you should know him better than anyone,now the choice is yours on what you want to do.

Answer 5

Sure sounds like he's more interested in you than his stuff.

Answer 6

Ask him then you will find out,

do you actually think we can read his mind from

here...........

Answer 7

He likes having and eating his cake, that's the issue.

Give all his stuff to him, file for divorce, and move on. Why let him have it both ways??

Answer 8

Sure he does. If you're not giving him an excuse then he is overusing that one to see you. Be flattered.

Answer 9

I think he just wants to see you.  If you give all his stuff back it means permanent separation is closer.  He probably doesn't want that.

Answer 10

i don't think he's talking bout material (stuff) but more like sexual stuff?