Why my husband won't trust me?

Question

I am housewife and have 3 month kid .I never think of any man other than him nor even i tried other men to attract towards me.I always follow him whatever he says and from my side i never complains him .He even suspect me when i was pregnent.

i luv him and i can't even think of being away from him.I discussed with him many times infact i left my all frnds and i have relation with only those lady which he permits.

Answer 1

Normally if they are the ones cheating they try to convince themselves that you are too, to relieve their guilt.

Answer 2

sounds like hes very untrusting and controlling...talk to him about how you feel and that you wouldnt cheat on him..

usually (not always) the people that show signs of not trusting the other or accusing the other of cheating then theyre the ones thats up to no good...

Answer 3

Maybe he was let down before.. either in a relationship or with his parents.. or even friends.. things like that can leave people feeling very insecure..

I think its nice that u lost ur friends but i dont think he shud do this to u.. Just becos of his insecurities doesnt mean u cant have a life of ur own..

maybe just tell him this and keep reminding him that u would never let him down?

Answer 4

I feel sorry for you are like a servant and he tells you what to do this is called be controlling and you are being mentally abused and being treated like a animal so get out of this relationship and get some counseling

Answer 5

Hello, it sounds as though your husband is trying to find ways in blaming you for something that he may have committed,we always try to blame others for different reasons in order to justify certain situations in order not to be confronted. If I where you and I know exactly where I stand I would confront him!

Furthermore; he is trying to control your life, he can't chose your friends for you nor can he allow you to only speak with certain people. That's wrong...I was once in a relationship where everything I did had to be okayed by my partner, even seeing my family, let's put it this way it did not last very long. I'm a person not a little dog who follows his owner everywhere he goes!

If I where you I would sit down with my husband and have a serious discussion I would also set my rules as I'm sure he can come and go as he pleases with no questions asked!!! Remember respect is key in a relationship and it has to be mutual.  

Answer 6

It seems like he is the one that is doing something wrong here.  He is just saying all this stuff to you to try and make himself feel better for doing wrong towards you.

Answer 7

he wont trust you because maybe once he got cheated on and he is scared to do that again