Why or how do people lose interest in marriages/relationships?

Question

How does it happen?

10 points for best answer!

Answer 1

They get tired of the same old thing after awhile. You gotta mix it up in the relationship to keep things alive, unless you like the same old thing

Answer 2

Most of the time people get together too young then as they get older they grow apart, don't like the same music, scene, etc. etc.  And sometimes the reason they got together wasn;t the right ones, or they just wanted "a Bf/GF" so they got with the first thing that comes along, then later have to pay for it when they realize that person is lazy, a couach potato etc. etc.  So i don't think its anybodys fault, especially if they got together in say high school and really did love eachother but grew apart. as for the ones that rush into relationships because of loniness or marriage, child bearing etc. etc. then I would say its there fault. :(  

Answer 3

who has to blame...? BOTH..

coz they don't know how to accept their fault.. they always think of their ego & pride..

i can't 100% blame my husband by cheating me.. i know i also have flaws .. im not a sweet person & he said im frigid...

coz im not perfect.. im only human..  

Answer 4

After a while you have heard almost every story the other person has and you know all their moves in bed.  It is that point in time when you need to decide if you are best friends as well as lovers.

Sexual attraction and awesome s*x don't last forever and when you start having shared bills and kids the s*x stops mattering at all.  My wife and I still have s*x but we argue a lot and I am happily married.

Even when we argue it is like arguing with a friend that I get to have s*x with.  It helps after a little while if you move to that kind of relationship.  It is easier to be married to a friend than a lover.  So be friends first and lovers second.  When you talk about everything it will get around to s*x you will talk about things you wanted to do but thought the other would freak out about then you will get in the mood and both parts of the marrage are fixed.

My wife and I talk about random stupid stuff and thats what our arguments are.  We are like kids most of the time.

Answer 5

IGNORANCE!

Many folks do not know how to make or keep a good relationship and we are not taught it at home or in school!

Usually both are to blame!