Why she betray me and how could this happen to me?????

Question

i dont know where to start, but it really hurt me so much!!!!!

i hv a one and half year relationship with a girl dat i really love

during dat time i always try to give the best for her n we stay together during dat time also, i mean we stay in same home.

but last week things happen so complicated, it happen since she back from china(she is chinese) for her holiday for more than 2 months, first month she still love me like before always so sweet to me, but after her ex bf back from US to china they to mate each other again, they were been together fo 7 yaears b4 with long distance realtionship but because her ex dont want her to wait for him so he said broke up to her n coz he want her to find a good bf for her.

after she back from her holiday she change alot n always sms n call her ex bf it happn till today n we still together, just imagine hw painful i am when i see dat but i just cant say anything.

couple days ago i really cant hold on then i told her bout my feeling

but it seems cant solve the problem between us n she said broke up to me

now she act like really dont care bout me, just dumb me away but before she always really proud of me n always told her friends dat she hv a good bf dat can always take good care of her bu t i just cant understand how in quite a short time she can change like this???

nw eventhough i cried in front of her she seem like feel nothing

i ever told her dat i wanted to talk to her ex bf but she didnt allow me coz she afraid when i talk to her ex bf, her ex bf will give her up

nw they two seem so sweet n i just dont knw hw i suppose to do nw

should i give up n sacrifice for the happines for both of them??

she told me to give her time to think coz nw she confuse also its who she really want, but nw its really obvious dat in her heart only hv her ex bf not me anymore n she keep make alot of excuses dat its impossible if we two can be together n she told me maybe b4 she didnt love me dat much n only coz she afraid dat she will b feel alone here in singapore dats why she need me.

i really hope dat someone out there can give me some advice hw to face this kind of feeling

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Answer 2

It is obvious that she never did give up on her old bf. Now that the flame of love between them have been rekindled, you have become the extra baggage.

Though it hurts, it is time for you to move on. Obviously your loving has not been able to fulfill the gaps that she felt missing inside her all these while. Her ex bf being chinese as well also plays a part. Chinese from China are pretty conservative when it comes to choosing a life partner. The parental objection comes into play whether u like it or not.

It will be better for you to start anew with someone else rather than trying to stick with her. She has changed once, & even if she does come back to you she can change again. You will forever be unsure when she will go back to her old ways again.

You are a good man, there will be lots of girls out there that will die to have a bf like you.

Best of luck.