Why should I listen to my parents?I need help.

Question

I know you guys think I'm a 13 year old kid but sometimes we teenagers need help too.My parents torture me a lot.They're always trying to separarte me from my relatives and the ones I love.They always think about themselves.Just because they're a little old they're moving to a place where there's a school with gangters all around and no education.They beat me up all day.They don't let me make friends with anybody.I don't know why.They don't let me listen to music.They don't let me keep a diary and the worst thing is they're moving to a place with no neighbours around or no one around.You know how much I'll miss my cousins and relatives.I love them so much but they don't let me do anything.I feel so bad right now I just wanna suicide myself.I need help badly.They're hurting my feelings so badly.We're staying at a place where there's peace and my grandparents and cousins live near us.I'm studying in a very good school but why are they leaving this place for the worse? Just because they have a bigger house and they can show it off to people.Why do they not ever think of me? I tried talking to them so many times but they slap me really hard everytime i say something.

Answer 1

How are they torturing you? Not like kicking you or slapping you right? But if they are, you might want to call child protecting agency place. Or if they aren't, maybe have a talk with a counselor. Just, try not to think about suicide. If you need to e-mail me, it's on my profile. - iES

Answer 2

You might wanna leave a note then run away, take a bus to some of your relatives' houses or maybe your friends.

Answer 3

You said they are moving to a place with a school with gangsters, that sounds like an inner city school, yet there are NO NEIGHBORS where you are moving to which sounds like it is out in the country.

That just doesn't add up hon.the gangsters don't live out in the sticks,they hang out in the inner city.

Next you saythey beat you all day.

Well then there are bound to be bruises, show them to your school counselor.

Next if it is not beatingas but spankings,I have to wonder what you are doing to earn them.They slap you for talking o them or talking back to them?

Next they are trying to make a living and support you as well as themselves.They do not want to live with thier parents the rest of their lives, would you want to live with your parents forever?

You can still study and do well in the school you'll be going to and when you graduate and get a job you can live wherever you like hon.Just hang in there and don't give your parents c**p.They are probably doing the best they can.

Answer 4

You have every right to be upset. I think that it is wonderful that you care about the area where you are moving to. I think it's wonderful that you care about education and your family. You need help with this. Try to get help with your grandparents or someone else in your family.Try this hotline for help: 1-800-273-8255, its the USA National Suicide Hotline.

Answer 5

parents do things sometimes to protect u but they r just being mean and a jerk to u  should stand up for urself and tell wat ur feeling maybe they will change

Answer 6

First you need to calm down. Second try telling someone what's happening and maybe they'll listen to you. For the last resort and only the last resort you might can runaway but there are a couple of consequences with this state of action. You aren't alone alot of my friends are having the same problems as you. Or call a teen help line

1-800-272-Teen

Answer 7

First of all they are your parents. They may seem  mean or uncaring..

But they have your welfair at heart. I am sure they love you but are unable to give you all the things you want. Just bare with them. At 13  it is hard to see things the way grownups  do.Hurting yourself is not the way..

Answer 8

your parent have no right to slap you around like that. call child protective services to try to live with a relative. make sure you document the times and dates for each time they lay their hands on you.

Answer 9

They slap you for asking questions? Torture you? Why are you not reporting this to authorities instead of posting it here? Get some real help for yourself. At least talk to your grandparents about staying with them. If you have a computer, then you can find the number for your area State Social Service Center and talk to someone about your situation. Call a suicide hotline number if you are that depressed ( call 911 and ask for the number) Take some action for yourself.  

Answer 10

im sorry to say, but you should call social services or something, cuz that is horrible!!! they really should not be treating you likr dirt!!!!

they had a kid they have to take car of it and remember that there is another person in the house!!

and they should not be slapping you for saying what you feel!