Why should women usually/need to get treated better than men in dating ?

Question

Why should women usually/need to get treated better than men in dating ? I mean there chivalry-[courteous behavior, especially that of men towards women] but women dont have to do equal treatment toward men or they do less than want is expected men do. Why dont more women take there men out and pay for them as much as men usually do? Some women expect the man to pay all of the dates, and most men do. The problem is men go along wit this, they usually think want can I buy her to MAKE her like me. They do stupid things( without the women reciprocating back) like expensive dinner on the first date, flower, gifts, out of the box favors, paying for everything, let women verbally and physically abuse him without leaving her, free vacations. Men If really want to know if there girlfriend like them 4real, respect her but dont spoil her, demand to be treated with the same respect u give her. Let her fall in luv with u not want u can do 4 her financially. What do yall think about this ?

Answer 1

Because many men think it will get them into bed with us and many time immoral women and men allow it to work.  This "legal prostitution" is made able by both women as well as men.

Answer 2

Because were just better. Its fate.

Answer 3

women shouldn't get treated better than men,I hate to say this but men are wusses,instead of standing up for their rights and demanding respect,they let their wives rule over them.

I know that no woman disrespect me and gets away with it.

Answer 4

Because they are very sensible.

Whatever you do that they don't like, will ruin the date :P,so you just do it

Sucks but...do it q:

Answer 5

If that is the way you look at it then ok men treat their women with respect because we carry their off-spring for them, woman have been treated well for years just for that simple face that we are the only one who reproduce your genes and keep your blood line up and running, I take it you don't have girlfriend? I husband has not spent expensive amounts of money on me, we have 4 children together, and he respects me for that

Answer 6

Because women have to push something the size of a large  watermelon out of an opening the size of a walnut.

Besides, nobody is forcing men to do anything.  Dating and having relations with the opposite (or same) s*x is still voluntary and optional.

Answer 7

I know when I got together with my fiance he always insisted on paying for dates. I would insist right back that I pay for at least my portion, but he would vehemently refuse. And many men (and what I mean by many men is the crazies on this forum) vilify women for not paying 50/50 on dates, but what they seem to not realize is many men happily do this. Many men are quite happy wooing their ladies by paying for a date. If you're one of those men who believe that women should pay their portion of a date, then ask her to pay her portion. No one is forcing you to pay for all of it. If she gets angry at you, then you two obviously have different outlooks and would probably not work out anyway.

Answer 8

Hey bud !!!

The answer 2 U're question is quite easy.

We men treat women like queens cause "we" (us men) want 2 get into their pants.  We R men after all.

Women rules by a totally diffrent kinda rule all together, lol.

They don't need 2 try 2 get into mens pants cause they know that for men, it's the only thing on our mind, so they let us make fools of ourselves trying.

We (mostly all men) seam 2 only want 2 think with 1 brain (& I'm not talking about  the 1's on our shoulder nether, lol) so we work real hard at it & will do mostly anything 2 get in there, hehehehe

Women don't cause they know they have us men over a barel.

Hehehehehehe.  

Yup !!!!

It's that simple my friend,

Answer 9

I haven't dated in over 20 years.

If this is the case, that women are treated better than men in a dating relationship, WHY would the man stay in the relationship at all?   Just end it if she treats you poorly.

I see a lot of comments about how the man is always expected to pay for the meal and entertainment on a date....well, did you ever consider the money a woman may have already put in to her clothing, her hair, nails and make-up to get herself ready to go out on a date?     I don't think this financial imbalance is a great as you state.  Unless you buy $80 dinners for women dressed in jeans and flip flops with hair in a ponytail.

Food for thought.

And I also happen to know there are many women who pay their own way as a matter of course in their dating behavior.