Why si she so afraid to talk to me?, to say I am sorry? Or is she even sorry, not sure of herself, or of me?

Question

Known each other over 3 years, 1st 18 months, great. We spent so much time together. Then she moved to another country to work, we stayed in contact for just over a year,, every day, on the phone, text messages. 10 months ago she cut me off, said no more phonecalls, 5 months ago she emails as if nothing happened, she's been emailing regularly, but she won't answer my phone calls,,only emails, does not say anything about not answering my phone calls. 2 days ago I emailed, "I would love to see you. Can I at least hear your voice? I need to hear the sound of your voice; my favorite song in the world". 2 years ago, I told her that sounf of her voice is my favorite song in the world. Bottom line, she dumped me perhaps for someone else 10 months ago, then she started emailing, I am polite. I have forgiven her, did not tell her but I am polite with my email response, just small chit chat,, "hello how are you, I'm fine, hope your day is ok", that kind of thing. It kills me she's not answering

Answer 1

Forget her and move on, dude. What excuse short of: "I was kidnapped and I had no access to a phone or computer." would be good enough? She probably met someone else, and you should do the same. She sounds like an evil c-word.

Answer 2

Sounds like she's using you and playing you. Treat her exactly the way she did you: don't respond to any of her communications. If she's serious, she'll show up in person and you can take it from there. If she's not, you won't have wasted any more of your time with her.

Some people -- both boys and girls -- like to play games. Don't tolerate it. You're only going to regret it.

Answer 3

I'm afraid she has done the cowardly thing and dumped you without explaining why, and done it while she's in a different country.

She's treated you with disrespect and no regard for your feelings. So you shouldn't email her trying to get her back or be friendly.

You don't treat a friend like, let alone someone you are meant to love.

You desrve better than to be treated like this.

Answer 4

Sorry.  It sounds like she met someone else and lacked the good manners to tell you so.

It's time to find someone else.