Why so many married men on dating sites etc..?

Question

Again I am asking..

Why are there so many Married Men From Inda asking for free s*x and no strings relationships on Dating Sites etc..

Is marriage worthless in India that the men from there are asking begging, cajoling, demanding of women for anything under the sun..

And how do the wifes from these men feel about this..Or maybe they have NO idea what their husbands are up to..

I am gobsmaced at the number of these chaps being on dating sites and blatantly demanding everythin..With No Photo of course..

Answer 1

alot of people still have "arranged" marriages and are unhappy and want the thrill of s*x with strangers.

Answer 2

indian men are hypocrites.

they want to have a good family life [read devoted wife, well behaved children, well kept homes and security in old age]. but at the same time they want to enjoy the pleasures of an extra marital affair. basically they want to have their cake and eat it too.

even in this age , s*x is a taboo topic in mosst indian households. so men like to explore and experiment. now the question is why 'married' men ? well the answer to that is --

1-they feel that being married gives them the licence to indulge in other women. they are looked upon as respectable and hence nobody would doubt their  activities.

2-after marriage, they are more or less settled with a good family and good jobs. this gives them some disposable income  as well as time to get involved elsewhere.

3-in the indian male dominated society, nobody is likely to question their activities as long as they are providing their families with the basic necessities with a fair amount of luxuries thrown in.

4-they think the grass is always greener on the other side. they are not happy with what they have. they think the other man's wife is better than his own . hence he is always on the prowl.

5-being married gives them a legitimate excuse to wriggle out any unpleasant relationships without getting hooked. they jusst want to enjoy without taking any responsibility.

how do the wives react?????    well,



1- the ones with kids mostly are forced to turn a blind eye to the entire situation.for the sake of the kids she puts up with the philanderings of her husband. a divorced woman and children of broken homes iss a big no no in the indian society.  'family' is considered sacred and hence divorce is not an option.

2- the wives may rave and rant and nag their husbands till kingdom come, but indian men are bred in such a thick skinned society that the wails of a woman treated unjustly fall on deaf ears. the men have the support of the family members and the society at large.

3-some of the more modern women do opt to walk out of such unhealthy marriages but have to face the wrath  of society and have to face a lot of ridicule and shame. a woman has to be very very strong to take on such a step. but now a days the educated and financially well off woman do dare to take the extreme step of kicking out the errant husband.

Answer 3

HI,

   why to zoom on indian men.. i have seen a lot of men from other parts od the world  to do the same .. ..to be frank .. all men are the same .. some control the urge after they marry ..  some still freak out...

cheers

Answer 4

they are asking no doubt ... but they are so foolish

they are not going to get it anyway from decent gals

Answer 5

Most of the Indian marriages are arranged ! And they get married at an early age. The average age an Indian man gets married is 27 ! So he has allot of his dreams or so called fantancies unfulfilled ! And most of the arranged marriage families would be a typical indian family with so called family values, respect and traditions like- no talking to gals or a Big No No to gals wearing jeans ! In there opinion a gal wearing jeans is considered FAST and might ve slept with a million guys ! Many wont accept but this is the truth ! So ofcourse these men r desperate and out on a prowl ! there wives mostly wud b saree clad females with flowers in her hair ! Unlike the gal he fantasies about in jeans or skirt ! And most importantly the basic thinking of an indian man is that the western culture is more out going and liberal when compared to the Indian. Westerns gals are more approachable than Indian. So they think they can hit on any gal who looks even remotely like a gal ! Or for that matter hit on anythng which Moves !! And yes the most important thing. These men on the dating sites hitting on modern women is just for a time pass ! He wants his girlfriend to wear the shortest dress ever but when it comes to his wife he wants her to cover hersefl from head to toe !! Thats how double standard they r !! Im sure im gonna get thums down for this but i shud say truth is always bitter !

Answer 6

They are horrible husbands. That is why.

Answer 7

You please dont think only married men, there is also married woman dating with young boys. They are mean minded peoples of human category, who really dont know wat is s*x and life and the value of it. they are like animals. They just want to fulfill their needs. these persons are selfish by nature and they wont get satisfaction with anything till their end of life.

Answer 8

Its really a good question. . .