Why the freakin' shyness?!?

Question

ok, I am a 14 year old girl and i am very shy and quiet towards people at my school (unless they're my friends) especially the guy(s) i like (i go beat red when I talk to him)...what can i do to be less shy and more confident?

Answer 1

Just realize that they are just a imperfect as anyone of us. They are all looking to fit in just like you. If you remember this all the time, you wont be as affraid of them.

Answer 2

You need to have more self confidence....dont be afraid to approach guys and talk to them.........=)

Answer 3

more self confidence. i used to be shy, but then i realized that im hot!!!!1

Answer 4

Tell yourself not to be shy anymore OK yeah right this is coming from a really shy person. So lets say this.. I was like that. In school esp when I was younger. Then I went to college, it was worse not better, then it was out in the real world. I wanted to be a business owner and I was like how the hel* can I do that if I have a hard time speaking to people in the first place? Does not make for the best chance in the world huh? So I started to overcome it.

The thing that you have to ask yourself is.....

Do I really want to be like this?

Things to tell yourself?

No one is better then me, we are all the same on the inside

Even if people laugh at me I need to open up

Things you need to do?

More eye contact concentrate on their eyes and what they are saying

Be nice

Be outgoing

Tell yourself you are a special person

Think about something funny

Think about something you overcome

Good luck

Answer 5

just remember young lady that your condition is not a weakness but truly a blessing . i for one was always attracted to girls like you before the loud and obnoxious types .people that have no reservations when they interact with others are usually ego driven and not much fun to be around anyway ! so hold your head high my dear because your special and you'll see the guys will appreciate it !!

Answer 6

hey, don't worry, I'm 14 too, and I get shy in school, like me, I get nervous when talking to girls, unless they are my friends. You just have to know in your heart and mind that you are confident, and you know you can overcome this situation. Hope I helped, later.

Answer 7

just say something head on

the burden will lighten