Why the heck he just ignores me?

Question

ok i have this long distance relation with this guy and when he calls which is kind of very rare like twice a month or so he would just say the sweetest things and i know he means it. anyway now he just seems to be ignoring me more than ever.

he seems to have interest but i dont want to be acting like more than friends right now we have known and seen eachother 2 times in the last 6 months so what should i do wait for him could that be my ideal

thanx

Answer 1

I guess you should follow what he is doing. Sounds like he just want to be friends and not go more than that because he is not interested. I am sure you will understand if he is interested in you only if he says something and if not then it is just how it has to be. Maybe he is just thinking you as a friend and not more than that. Well he is not ignoring you I guess.  

Answer 2

I have been through this situation and honestly I would go and check out He is Just Not That Into You...the book really helped me get a better perspective as to whether he is into you or not.  I know it helped me but you are the only person who understand how yours and this guys relationship works.  If you think you can handle the distance then stick it out it might work but if it is causing you heartache movie on...There are billions of men out there, you can find one who wants to talk to you on a regular basis.  Good luck and I hope whatever you choose makes you happy.