Why virgo man act crazy suddenly?

Question

i dated this man for 2-3 month.. I can understand he really liked me.. b/c he showed me his family and his boss and others. and then we finished..

I think I didn't take care of him but he probably did his best but I was unhappy that he want to be his way all the times...

anyway.. after break up, he was still be nice whatever.. and then we were friend.. and I had other problem which is my ex before him... so I told him that b/c of ex I guess somehow I messed up our relstionship..

he said it's ok whatever.. but for me.. I can't do anything about it.. b/c he called off so whatever...so I told him that we are fine to be friend b/c 2month isn't anything...whatever...c**p stuff

now suddenly he goes really crazy... when we went to camping (all friend), he was very jerk and trying to flirt with any woman. seriously!

now.. he is trying to dating one of my good friend(ex freind now). and the problem is she isn't what he is looking for at all. a lot of peole say, he was very lonely but I don't understand.. her?? also he used to be very shy infront of me, and not telling a lot of stuff. but infront of her, man... he flirt a lot and whatever .... werid for me.. something wrong...

also for me, she isn't his type though.. b/c she like to talk about sexual stuff, she curse a lot, she isn't pretty at all.. (I hope you see her pic... when I met her first time, I felt she(aquaris) is a trashy type but why he is trying to date her??? why it is too sudden.... also he know she like drama b/c I told him that I woulnd't go to trip with her b/c she will get a guy at the bar and I don't want to be in that circle stuff... but how come he want her??? is it just for s*x? why her why one of my good friend..? also he knew... does he really mad at me? have no clue!

I repected him alot since he didn't date for couple of years before me. so I thought he is A type guy but now.. it is reversed.. he is jerk.

why he suddenly act crazy? now, I don't talk to him at all..

but I felt aweful b/c I wished he is dating better girl.. who has classic and pretty and wise...

I can't sleep and eat at all sometimes... I thought he would comeback somehow because he really liked me a lot and everyone knew he crushed on me for couple of month.. but I never saw he is trying to talk to me.......

but what do i do? I am trying to move on... but I am wondering what cause him to do so?? yet he called "off" this relationship first when we were broken up... I don't understand man.... i thought he is smart and like girl very classic and no cursing whatever...

now I really hate him and I am very embarrassed he is trying to date her... who I was thinking low self esteem...

after finish all this drama, does he ever gonna come back? i have no idea but now.. i am out of my friend circle...

oh well... give me some idea here ... i really don't understand this man..by the way, I am cappy

Answer 1

virgo men are tough. he wants to be with you, but doesn't know how to resign himself to act like it. he is lashing out. i'd be interested in knowing his rising and moon signs.

Answer 2

Virgos are way too critical and can be quick to judge

Answer 3

virgos are players. the word love is not in their dictionary.

Answer 4

yea... This sounds like wayyyy too much drama. If I were you I'd let it go and move on. He is not worth it girl

First of all like you said, he broke it off with you. It's his loss not yours.

I think the reason he is acting like that may be because of what you said.

That you were only together 2 to 3 months so it's no big deal and you can be friends.

I guess he felt that you didn't take him as seriously as he wanted it you to.

He wants you to be needy for him and that's the reason why he's acting like that. And like the girl above me said, it sounds like it is working.

But girl DO NOT stoop to his level. Just IGNORE him. Keep yourself busy.

You already know how your friend is. Whatever he is looking from her is not something that he would want for long term. I am not saying that it's never going to happen because you just never know.

But who cares. He broke it off with you. You should be the one showing him what he's loss, not the other way around.

From now on, act like what he is doing does not bother you. Don't show any sign that you actually still care for him. Just be cold and distant like a virgo.

GL

Answer 5

I too am interested in knowing his moon and rising sign. I dated a virgo for a year and one thing about virgo's is that they will tell you everything is fine when it really isn't. They also can be very vindictive. Which I think is what this one is doing. He still wants to be with you, he is just pulling a "look what you lost" move and doing what he can to make you jealous and hurt you. And it's working. Even though he was the one that called "off" the relationship, he probably had a feel that that was the ultimate route the relationship was heading. I hate to say it, but your best bet is to probably to talk to him about the way you are feeling. Virgo's are good communicators and he is probably as hurt over this as you are, this is just his way of acting out.