Why when you ask what sun signs are compatible with what signs then you ask who you are with......?

Question

they do not match up a lot of times,when you asked who their with as lovers,married couples etc.....................

Example-ARIES goes with Leo, Sagittarius, Gemini and Aquarius.

TAURUS goes with Virgo, Capricorn, Cancer and Pisces.

GEMINI goes with Libra, Aquarius, Aries and Leo.

CANCER goes with Scorpio, Pisces, Taurus and Virgo.

LEO goes with Aries, Sagittarius, Gemini and Libra.

VIRGO goes with Taurus, Capricorn, Cancer and Scorpio.

LIBRA goes with Gemini, Aquarius, Leo and Sagittarius.

SCORPIO goes with Cancer, Pisces, Virgo and Capricorn.

SAGITTARIUS goes with Leo, Aries, Libra and Aquarius.

CAPRICORN goes with Virgo, Taurus, Scorpio and Pisces.

AQUARIUS goes with Libra, Gemini, Sagittarius and Aries.

PISCES goes with Scorpio, Cancer, Capricorn and Taurus.

Answer 1

I'd say that it's likely because sun sign compatibility doesn't take into consideration the complexity of our selves and our birth charts. So maybe the sun signs aren't compatible, but the moon signs are...these people will relate well emotionally. Good aspects to Jupiter would indicate that these people share similar philosophies and attitudes in regards to religion etc. Maybe there's synastry involving outer planets or the nodes, indicating that this is a karmic relationship and that these two people no matter how poorly matched they seem to be have a past life bond. And of course we can't forget Venus/Mars synastry, which is really all most people care about anyhow.

There are too many different ways that people relate to be able to rely on sun sign compatibility to tell us who we should and should not have relationships with.  

Answer 2

as above or because they are mismatched - not everyone who is with someone is living in harmony.