Why women tell their partner to leave ,and when the partner leave they cry?

Question

Why women tell their partner to leave ,and when the partner leave they cry?

Answer 1

Cause their upset and hurt.

Answer 2

because you get mad at us for sometimes the stupid things that you schould not let get to you  

Answer 3

Usually when a woman makes this kind of statement to you it doesn't always mean that she wants you to go. Usually she is hoping that you will not want to separate but wants something that you are doing to change in the relationship for the better. If you just up and leave without fighting for what the two of you have then it tells her that you really don't love her enough for things to be different.She is crying because she does care and grieving the death of your relationship to her because she feels you do not care to put an effort into it to make things right. It's easy to walk away so she needs to see that your willing to go to battle for her to make a difference. If you love her then then compromise what you can and make it work so your dreams with one another do not have to come to an end sweetie.

Answer 4

They are upset and frustrated about the relationship and their only way of dealing with the situation is to ask you to leave, but deep down they want you to profess your love and fight to fix the relationship. When you just leave then reality hits that the relationship is lost for good.

Answer 5

They simply cannot decide at all to cry or not to cry.  To leave or not to leave, to love or not to love, to hang-on or not to hang-on, everything HURTS!

Answer 6

Nobody wants to admit failure.  If a relationship has reached a point at which there is no way to save it and someone has to leave, that constitutes a failure.  They cry over the failure of the relationship vs. what they had hoped it would be.

Answer 7

They tell:

- to leave because their partner hurt them,

- than they cry - because they feel that pain still and unfortunately they  miss him.

Answer 8

There is a sense of lose, nothing to do with the "guy".

Answer 9

Cause they want you to leave, but they want you to stay! And they are hurt, angry, and upset.

Answer 10

It's still sad it's the end of an relationship that you put time and energy into

Answer 11

Yes I had done that and cried for two yr.s.

But I never dreamed he would go.I was just angry at the time

but never wanted him to leave still sorry I did this to him.

Hoping one day he will come home as there was allot of changes for both and I to make in our self's'

I have done this and pray he has too!

Them words I will never say again!  

Answer 12

Because part of them do want them to leave, but when they do leave, the other part of them ´doesn´t. It´s kind of a love and hate situation, you can´t have them both so it´s frustrating.