Why won't he admit it?

Question

We had company over the weekend. My fiance acted really crazy all weekend. Well I started feeling really weird. So I went into his email. I found an Email from his brothers girlfriend asking him if he regreted the kiss they shared when every one was asleep and that she wanted him and all she could think about was him. When I confronted him about it. He denied it. He said that it did not happen that she was a crazy *** b. He left. Well I called her and told her that I saw all the emails and that I wanted to know what went on and i want to know now. She admitted that it was just a kiss and that was it and and she was sorry. He came home I told him I had called her and that she admitted it. He STILL wont admit it. He is still saying that she is a crazy *** b and that she just wants him and that she wants us to break up. I am 26. I dont have time for this ****. My fiance and I have a family a home a life. What do I do. He says that he will leave before admitting to something that he did not do. Im confused

Answer 1

Even if he did kiss her obviously it wasn't relevant to him.  She sounds like someone who really wants him by sending him the email.  Relationships are tough and from the sounds of things it wasn't things that were important to him.  You have to look at the rest of your relationship and decide if this is just one of those things, but his love for you is stronger, or there is obviously things in the relationship other than this incident that lead you to not trust him.

Answer 2

He needs to go if he cannot even admit to this after being approached with the evidence. He is a jerk. You cannot work on something if he won't admit to the problem. I'm sorry that he did this to you, no one deserves to be cheated on..and a kiss is cheating.

If he would lie about a kiss then he would definitley hide other things.

Answer 3

tell him you want him and her to confront each other and settle this once and for all and have you thought just for a minute he might be telling the truth maybe she is just trying to cause trouble because why send him a email about the kiss knowing you might see it unless thats what she wanted

Answer 4

Common tactic for guys is to call the woman crazy when they get caught out.  Next he'll be calling you crazy for not believing him.

Do what you have to do.  Good luck.

Answer 5

Wow. He's not admitting it, even when you tell him about the email.

How much else is he keeping from you?

If you go to church, go talk with your pastor.

Get a copy of the email and a voice recording of the girl, just in case ;)

Answer 6

Do what feels right to you, go with your heart on this!!

Answer 7

you know the truth. do what you need to do, he wont ever admit it.  

Answer 8

you do not deserve this...move on

Answer 9

then have him leave

you are better of with a person who can confess and you can at least know he is telling the truth than someone who lies and threatens to leave to cover his rear and make himself look better in the eyes of the family and friend

split up

a relationship based on  lies never last

split up and then let all who want to know the truth

Answer 10

This is just a preview of what will happen IF or WHEN you get married. Nip it in the butt before you make that huge commitment.  You will feel ten times more stress when you find out he is continuing the lies and cheating after you get married. I would run and consider it a blessing in disguise that it happened before the wedding and not after.

Answer 11

He will never admit it .  You are going to have to decide if you want to accept this and move forward or take a chance and get married and run the risk of being married to a cheat and a liar .

I think you already know the answer to what went on .

Time to make a major decision . Keep the cheat and liar around or move on to bigger and better things .

Good luck .