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Why won't he kiss me?

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OK guys...tell me what you think...

So, my Best Friend is a male. Risky, I know.

I'm in love with him.

We have been very close for a while, and last year around April our relationship started getting sexual [not actual s*x though, we're not allowed to have s*x until marriage.]

But there were many a freaky conversation, many instances in which we did sexual things with each other [touching, groping, rubbing...etc.]

The catch to all of this is, we have never kissed. No French, no tap, nothing. Not even once.

I ask him: "How can you possibly do all of that and shy away from kissing?"

He replies:"Kissing is more of a feelings thing. When you want to get freaky with someone you don't think 'oh boy, I have to kiss them' but if you really like someone, you can't wait to kiss them."

Now you tell me what to do:

1.What am I supposed to say to counter that?

2.How do I stop what I'm doing with him?

3.Can someone really explain what he means?

4.What does that make me?

5.How do I deal with this?

Help. Please.

I really want as much feedback as I possibly can please.

Thank You All =]

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  1. How old are you? To me it sounds like he is taking advantage of you. He said it himself that kissing is away of showing affection for someone and a way of saying I really care about you.  The other things you are doing is out of lust. Even though  you like him it does not seem like he feels the same way. Sorry=[

      


  2. He obviously isn't IN love with you&&doesn't seem like much of a best friend.


  3. he is basically saying hey i'm not interested. just having fun, etc. this means you 2 should just be friends. make sure you set the boundries. you seem kinda uncomfortable with this situation and i'm guessing you just want to be friends too. just tell him this.

  4. hmmm

  5. Sorry, it means he is using you and doesn't feel "romantic" about you. It is about sexual attraction, i.e. lust, and not love. You should problem, shut this down. Sooner or later, he will want to sleep with you, but it won't be about love.

  6. It's hard to tell what guys are thinking - they may not know themselves! He may be saying he just wants to mess around, but not get serious? You could come right out and ask him if that's what he means, but be ready for the answer, either way. If you assume he's saying he doesn't want to get serious, you need to decide how you feel about that - decide what is best for you. Would that kind of relationship work for you? Would you feel better continuing with things how they are, or would it be better to back off and just 'be friends'. Would it be better to end the relationship? You need to do some hard thinking and decide what is best for you. Good luck :)
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