Why won't my husband have s*x with me?

Question

My husband and I have been married for over a year, and now we only have s*x twice a week on the weekends. We used to make love at least three times a week, but it has dwindled, and his excuse is always that he's tired. Sometimes he's unresponsive when I touch his crotch. He simply says I'm bad and chuckles lightly. I'm desperate right now. How do I get him to desire me and have s*x during the week?

Answer 1

perform oral then jump on

Answer 2

When you find out let me know the relationship I am in is the same way!

Answer 3

Has he been under extra stress at work or financially? These things can impact s*x drive. Try wearing seier clothes than normal. Don't just stop at touching his crotch, unzip him and wrap your lips...

Try some alternatives as well:

as him to watch you m********e

Ask him to read s*x stories to you (or with you)

Hope this helps

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Answer 4

He very well could be very tired and stressed, but if you really want it more, you need to speak up.  Obviously it is bothering you and you should sit down and in a non-blaming/non-confrontational way, tell him that you want more s*x.  

If you don't want to talk about it just yet, I am going along with "it's a boy" and gonna suggest spicing it up.  Seems like most women like to be "taken" and shown that they are really wanted, but forget that most men like for their woman to take control and make them feel wanted as well.  When he responds with "your bad", tell him he hasn't seen bad yet and drag him into the bedroom.  Or heck, just pull down his pants right there.  

But honestly, talk to him.  Tell him that this is something that is bothering you.  

Answer 5

Do something different. don't approach him in bed, get things started somewhere else, wear something s**y, spice it up. Maybe he's bored with how you guys have been doing it. If that doesn't work, start watching for signs of something else..

Answer 6

Could it possibly be that he is actually tired during the week? You said you went from 3 times a week to only 2 during the weekends. If you are still having your fun time on the weekends he may really just be tired during the week.