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Why won't my mom accept and respect my decisions?

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I haven't made any real huge mistakes ever...and i have been successful in school....she doesn't care about anything....she misjudges my boyfriend and puts him down all the time...i am a very loving person and would go out of my way to do anything for any of my friends....she doesnt get anything.....i cant stand it when she puts my boyfriend down....i understand that he isnt perfect but nobody is...i'm not perfect

i dont know....someone try to help me understand...and thank you soo much

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  1. Start by making a list of all the things your mom has done for you sense you were born, if you are honest you will find she has made a sizable investment in your well being. Than think of all the friends you have known or have heard that really screwed up because of a bf that may only have a few months invested in you if you open your mind a little you can begin to see her concern. You may want to give her a little slack she has had a lot longer to learn about people than you and she just might know something that you don't. I wish you the best you can be the responsibility party here and really impress your mom with your understanding. Good luck.


  2. Instead of asking strangers this question I think you should ask your mom. Talk to her and tell her how this makes you feel. You never know she may know more than you think. I learned the hard way guys can seem pretty nice at first. Maybe she is seeing his true nature. I know you don't want to here this but talk to her that's all I can recommend.

  3. I don't know your mom but I can hear the you really do care what she thinks so you must respect her and are disappointed that she does not agree with you.

    I wonder if your daughter was dating this guy if you would be happy about it?  

    I wonder if your daughter was behaving like you, as a mother, would you respect you?

  4. you should ask your mom because there could be many reasons for this like..... she could want better for you...she does not like the fact your life was better than hers.you never will know unless you ask her..

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