Why wont a taurus guy make the first move?

Question

Im a taurus too, so I understand the whole shyness thing. Weve made it clear that we both really like each other, and we've gotten really close conversation-wise. He talks to all of my friends about me, but when Im around he is completely quite. Why wont he try anything? I've already made it clear that I want him to kiss me but we just end up talking about really personal stuff every time. Why is it so hard?

Answer 1

hes...shy...lol

Answer 2

Because it IS hard.... maybe you should make the first move instead.

Answer 3

You know, I'm a taurus and I'm the same way. I have to be very sure a guy is the one before I go for it.

Hey, is it me or does it seem like Taurus get a bad rap on here a lot? I've noticed this with Scorpios too. Hummm ;-)

Answer 4

Because he is scared of his feelings! He does not want his emotions to become blatantly aparrent *sp, he is too macho! But depending on his age he may or may not come around sooner rather than later. Good Luck!

Answer 5

taurus to taurus isn't going to work long term anyways, so have what fun you can while it lasts. what you lack, he lacks, what you already have, he already has....

taurus needs someone else to take the initiative. taurus with cancer or capricorn is a great match because they are cardinal signs who will jump on him and make him jump through hoops for them. taurus with pisces or virgo is a great match as well because they will be so relaxed and calm that they won't even pressure him to make a move and he will feel it is the right time on his own. cardinal signs will do it themselves, just plumet their tongue down his throught, and mutable signs like virgo and pisces will sit back, with a completely no pressure attitude that will allow him to act if he pleases, which will entice him to do so.

what you have done is fake him out! you mentioned or implied you wanted him to kiss you but then you didn't go ahead and kiss him. so you neither waited it out nor did you go ahead and act!

taurus is a fixed sign. which means they are stubborn. they will stick to their guns no matter what. he is simply using his strong sense of manners and politeness on too far of an extreme. he is being overly reserved, and he could have what he thinks is good reason for doing so.

did you come off as promiscuous? were you too eager to make him kiss you are do what you wanted? does he think you tell all the guys you want to kiss them? it might not be true, but if he believes it that might be your answer. are your friends making you look too desperate for attention? they could be complicating things. if not, it could be a commitment issue.

taurus can be a stickler for commitment and they can at the same time run scared and avoid it all together. they hold commitment with high regards and so can be reluctant to take someone seriously becuase they see it as a non breakable contract. tell him its ok, you aren't looking to marry him on the spot, you just want to have fun... but word it so he don't think you is a ho LOL!!! just kidding....