Why wont he just ask me out or approach me?

Question

i told this guy that i really want to talk to him. i want to tell him i like him. i think he knows- he told me when i could, when he would be free to spend some time with me. ive been flaking and im to nervous. if he knows i want to talk to him, and he sees me, why does he just stare and smile at me- why cant he just come over and start the coversation. is he really nervous to?

Answer 1

Of course he's nervous.  Just because he knows you are interested doesn't mean he is. And if he is interested, maybe he's unwilling to act on his feelings.

It's not a good idea to tell someone you like them before you even really know them. It will scare them off and make them think you are coming on too strong.  Also, some guys don't like it when the girl is aggressive by doing the pursuing.

Answer 2

I wouldn't be nervous. If he is too scared to talk to you that means he's totally into and doesn't want to mess anything up. Maybe you can email him. It is always easier to talk on email than face to face.