Why wont he stop calling?

Question

ok so...in my last question i asked wut to do about this guy that i used to date for 2 years...and most of you said to just leave him be.

so i am. but he wont stop calling me. and so of course i answer and we talk for like 2 mintues...then he gets mad about something..and hangs up on me.. then turns around and calls back like 10 minutes later...

sometimes really late at night. when he knows hes not supposed to call after 10. my nephew goes to bed really early...and like twice when hes called hes woke him up...then i get in trouble.

so my question is how do i tell him to stop calling but in a nice way..

i still wanna be friends with him but not if hes gonna keep acting like this..

WUT DO I DO?!?!

Answer 1

JUST ASK HIM NOT TO CALL OTHER WISE YOU COMPLAINT ABOUT HIM

Answer 2

He keeps calling you because you keep answering the phone and talking to him.

Stop answering his phone calls.  You two can be friends later, but you need some time away from each other first, especially so he can get over you and vice versa.

Answer 3

i think you should just come out with the truth and tell him what you really think

Answer 4

Just dont listen to anyone who tells you to be mean to him in any way.

Getting angry is never the answer. I think this guy is starting to see how much he misses you.. but he takes advantage of being your friend when he hangs up on you.

Next time he calls.. tell him that you are friends.. and there is a boundry.. and maybe he will back off. You never have to just leave someone be... because as all of us girls know.. you have feelings for someone for a long time.... even if you break up.. sooo... just let him down softly and eventually you will even find someone new. (:

good luck (:

Answer 5

WELL YOU GOT A PROBLEM. WELL MY TWO EX GFS TOLD ME.

ONE TOLD ME. IF YOU CALL ONE MORE TIME. I WILL CALL THE POLICE. GULP.  THE OTHER  HAS A RULE I CAN/T CALL THE HOUSE. SHE/S 5 FT 4. WELL TELL HIM WHAT THE 5 FT TOLD ME.

Answer 6

If you have caller ID, then just don't answer. If you don't, either get it or have someone else answer like one of your guy friends or your boyfriend or your Dad, and have one of them talk to him and try that one.

Good luck and stay strong!

Answer 7

Just talk to him, about it... & tell him, how you only wanna be friend's & if he can't except that.. Oh wellz that's his problem! Or just ignore his phone calls.  

Answer 8

Just explain to him that you are not interested in a relationship with him. That you just want to remain friends and to not call you so much.

It's really simple. You might be nervous at first but they go away fast.

-Witch

OR I could always cast a spell to make all your problems go away =P haha just kiddin!

=)

Answer 9

Just say "STOP CALLING" if it's really bothering you.

Answer 10

Stop answering his calls and give up on the friendship, he ain't worth it.

Answer 11

i only read the title and i can give the correct answer...HE WANTS IN YOUR PANTS

Answer 12

Why do so many people begin asking their question with "OK so..." it's so ridiculous....

Answer 13

tell him that for now you would like be only be friend and work on that relationship first and than maybe you can move on to something more way way down the road. But first you have to be friends and only Friends again.

Answer 14

There's no surprise here. He calls you because you talk to him. He's not annoying you...you like it because, as you said , you still want to be his friend. So, what's the problem? He is already "acting like this" and you still talk to him.

It is very easy to tell a person to stop calling you IF that is really what a person wants. You don't!