Okay this story is a little long, but to some it might sound interesting. A long time ago, I asked my husband why we didnt have s*x alot. He said "Well, I see myself as a king and you are my queen and queens don't have s*x alot" About to months later I asked him againhe said "I dont want to see you like the other women I have dated, I dont want to see you as a s**t".
Then he and I were cuddling on the couch the other night and we were discussing s*x and he said "I want to chase afer you, don't make yourself so easily accessible, I want you to start turning me down."
So, I started to little tiny things like bending over extra nice and it started to really turn him on, I did what he told me and I turned him down. It is worth noting I NEVER EVER turn my husband down, because well.... I love having s*x with him. After having two kids and being married almost four years, I am still drawn to him like a moth to a flame! He is just absolutely gorgious to me!
So last light, he was at the computer and we had been sorta flirting with each other, and I asked him "What time do you get off work tomorrow" he replies "seven O clock" I looked at him and said "well, I can get you off sooner than that". He says "OOOOOO, Nice". But, like 98% of the time, we went to bed. What am I supposed to do? I am a stay at home wife and mother of a one and two year old. I do everything I can in the bed room. I dress up for him in nurse outfits, I have done the whole leather and a whip thing(because he asked). I am at my whits end right now!!! I guess you could say when it comes to s*x, I want it more. I dont get it because when we first got married we used to have s*x all the time. We havent had s*x almost three weeks.
Oh P.S. he has told me in the past, he would rather cuddle than have s*x. I know most women would love a man like this, and I love him with everything I have, but I have needs and I am scared to confront him about this, because when I do, it just pushes him further away sexually.
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