Why wont she let me take care of the baby?

Question

its not born yet but she says ive done enough damage and i should leave. what do i do?

Answer 1

leavE? until she gets less emotional...or ask her what she wants  

Answer 2

we need more details, but if she says leave you should leave but stay close

Answer 3

Its hard to advise with little detail but I would suggest these basics

Respect her wishes but maintain contact

Once a week on the same day eg every Monday send a text just to say hi and check preg progress reminding her that your there if needed but keep it light

Once bub is born pay your maintenance on time every time

Continue to make contact once a week just to say hi and to maintain genuine interest in childs development, interests, health etc.

What tends to be a shame in these cases is that children have a right to know both their parents and often one parent denies the child this right. Be careful not to create any drama's. Whilst not ideal you can still contribute from a distance.