Why would a guy call at 3 in the morning?

Question

Why would a guy call a girl at 3 in the morning just to ask her what shes doing for Labor Day weekend, tell her that he just got home from the club and he's going to bed?

He also lives in another state so bootycall is out...he did seem kind of drunk but he didn't mention s*x either.

Any explanations?

Answer 1

Umm, big, duh it was a booty call.  Unless he lives in a different country or they are TOGETHER (and live in diff time zones)..there's no other reason to make that call.

Answer 2

Since no one but yourself knows this man any answers on here are guesses.

Here’s my guess. Maybe he was drunk. You have to remember though that when your drunk you lose your inhibitions. Maybe he honestly wanted to know what you were doing, so he could maybe invite you to whatever it was that he was doing. Either for a ‘booty call’ or simply because he likes you.

When he asked you what you were doing what answer did you give? If you told him you had plans and he immediately said “Oh, well I just got home from the club, I’m going to bed”. Then that can go two ways. One, he likes you, you said you had plans, and so he didn’t seem like that ‘loser’ that never got out and about, he had to let you know that he was out having a good time. Or two, he ‘likes’ you, you said you had plans, you were unavailable to get down and dirty over the weekend, so he had to throw in the club/bed thing to let you know (without coming right out and saying it) that you were missing out on a fun guy.

Just because he never mentioned s*x doesn’t mean that wasn’t what he was going for.

But you never know, he may just have wanted to say 'hi'.  

Answer 3

He was drunk. Dump him.

Answer 4

right there is your answer, maybe he was drunkk & had no control over talking to you.

& then again maybe he wasnt and thought that you might take advantage of him to have s*x ?

i dunno.

Answer 5

he was prob drunk