Why would a guy cut a friendship off, if friends is all he wants to be?

Question

me and my guy friend were really close, he had a girlfriend but he would flirt with me alot and hint at wanting a relationship... for 4 months he consistantly pursued me and when we finally chilled one day, he kissed me, twice while he had a girlfriend and spent the night (no s*x cuz im not like that)..the next day,he completely ignored me (didnt answer phone or text, nothing) the day after that, he apologizes, tells me that he wants to be commited to his girl and that she means the world to him, and we can only be friends, i was so hurt, and i told him how i felt about the situation, but i agreed to continue the friendship..but he he never talks to me again after that..ignoring me..why would he do that?

i tried to reach out and find out what happened but he wont answer me AT ALL!! what should i do?

I know i messed up just like everyone does,i know i was wrong, and i apologized, but i dont deserve this treatment.

Answer 1

You need to stay away from him because he's trying to make his relationship work and you're too tempting for him.  Sorry, but he is doing this to save himself from bad bahavior, you should do the same and steer clear.  Keep yourself busy and find a nice available guy.  Good luck.

Answer 2

Sounds like he is trying to save your feelings ( or more likely his own) and is trying to avoid temptations.

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