Why would a guy get close to o****m, stop and then leave? And pop chinese herbal medicine pills?

Question

Hey all... my boyfriend is Chinese. I visited him in China this summer. Before he'd go to work (or school) in the morning, he'd (grudgingly) given in and have s*x with me-- but he'd refuse to have an o****m-- he'd hold it and then stop and not let me finish with him. He'd refuse to have an o****m, but when he'd leave he'd flirt with me and touch me there and say, "bad". He was also taking some Chinese herbal medicine pills. He told me often that he was tired and was trying to conserve his energy. He said that he was afraid that if he had an o****m, he'd be too tired all day. It was hot and humid.

Could there have been any other reason for this behavior?

Thanks

Answer 1

Enjoy your AIDS

Answer 2

sounds like he has something to hide besides his sounds during an o****m to me. You should be able to get it out of him while you are away from him the rest of the year and why would you want to talk someone into having se x with you that didnt want too? Women m********e to you know.

Answer 3

If your boyfriend is in China and you had to visit him there in the summer, then he most likely is not exclusive to you sexually. He probably doesn't want his other boyfriend or girlfriend to be able to tell that he had an o****m with someone other than him. Sorry. The herbal medicine is probably just something he is taking every so often throughout the day. You were with him for a period of time obviously and so it would have been time or past due time to take some more. He could also have HIV if he is tired and needs to conserve energy that much. In which case be glad he is not being sexual very much with you. You should confront him about it and see what he says rather than letting him get away with keeping things from you.

Answer 4

I cannot say I understand why people do what they do or question it. I think he has great control. If he does not o****m he is really good. I think this is something you would have to ask him directly. It all sounds really weird. Do some kegels btw they tighten you up and no man can leave without leaving their mark.

Answer 5

SOUNDS LIKE A TRIBAL THING TO ME

I would just have to be tired all day.LOL

Answer 6

He wants to become tantric

SteveC