Why would a married man tell you he fancys you if he says he is happily married?

Question

So this guy says he wanted to let it be known how he felt and why he had to act all stand offish when the feelings got too strong. But in the same breath made a point of saying this would never go anywhere and he was more than happily married with a family. Wouldn't it have been easier not to admit his feelings? He said he felt better when he had let it out...why?

Answer 1

the feelings wre boiling up inside of him. he had to say somthing to get some relief. but now that he got it out of the open, he feels alot better adn can move on.

Answer 2

I think he is trusting you not to use that information in a bad way and also to let you know why he is backing off.

He knows his like /attraction for you it is a set up for him and he is setting down the rules so he does not mess up his family. I hope you are cool with that information and help him keep his distance.

Answer 3

you shouldnt be messing around with a married guy,let him handled his own demons and dont get involved

Answer 4

Let me translate:

"I am married, and I'm not going to leave my wife and children, but if you want to have s*x with me, I am more than willing to do that as long as you are OK with always being the other woman.  You can never ask me to leave my family because you already know how I feel about that."

Answer 5

he wants a FLING.

so he is warning you he has a family and he is happy but he is putting the bait out for you.

Answer 6

Because he's hoping YOU will make the move, then he won't be "responsible." After all, you knew he was married! Happily, even! And he's such a stand-up guy, he TRIED to keep this from happening!

Also, because he's a selfish prick. This "admission" makes HIM feel better, and who cares how it makes YOU feel, or what discomfort it might cause.

If he was a decent person, he would have kept this to himself. Feelings that are "too strong"? Too strong for what? It doesn't take much self-control to keep your mouth shut, and your thingie in your pants.

Ugh, this guy is making me sick, and I've never even met the man.

Run from this toxic waste dump of a human being. SERIOUSLY.

Answer 7

he feels better cuz he's being honest...i don't think he is actually going to do anything even if you made a move on him...it helped him realize how much he values his family...he is happily married but everyone meets people they are attracted to and he wanted to let you know so you don't get the wrong idea about him because altho hes shown interest, he's happy where he is and he wanted to let you kno how he felt about you, more as a complment because he didn't want to hurt your feelings if he puts his family first over you...he would make a good friend for you because he would always care for you and support you...remember just because your on a diet doesn't mean you don't look at the menu