Why would a wife do this to her husband?

Question

Why would a woman do this to her husband?

Why would a woman degrade, hurt, betray, humiliate and disrespect her husband by emotionally cheating on him with an online chat buddy, lie about it, break her promise to not do it again and then leave him for this online friend, get engaged to the online friend 2 weeks later and then say to her husband: "I'd like to be friends...Sometimes exes make the bestest..."

I understand that some of you may say, "she wasn't getting what she needed at home...." or something to that affect. But is that really justification to hurt him when he's not lied, cheated or abused you in anyway?

Answer 1

People hurt each other. This a fact. You cannot ask why she's cruel when he is loving. That's like asking How can a salesman dupe an honest customer. Because salesmen have no souls. Either does this woman. My mom did this same thing to my stepfather about ten years ago and though I still am in contact with him, I haven't spoken to her since. She has no soul.

Answer 2

She doesn't love him anymore. She is just now playing with him

Answer 3

Although it's often difficult to understand why another, especially a loved one, does something hurtful, in this case it might not have been something the husband did to drive his wife away, but simply because she found something that made her happier, or because she found she wasn't ready to commit yet. While I'm sure she hurt her husband, she was most likely not acting out of malice.  

Answer 4

We didn't move that fast, but I left my girlfriend of two years for an relationship that spawned on-line. It took a good 6 months for me to break apart my girlfriend and move on to the on-line girl. I simply did it because the on-line girl fulfilled my needs better. Everything I told her, she responded with understanding versus my girlfriend would ridicule and reject my beliefs. So don't say it's humiliation or anything -- it's simply finding someone better.

Its been about 3 years now and I couldn't be happier. She brought so much joy into my life. Had I stayed with my ex, I probably would have commit suicide.

Always two sides to every story.

Answer 5

Because she she was a BIIOTCH

Answer 6

I guess forbidden fruit taste always taste better. But they will realise later that they all taste the same and start to regret for their action.