My brother and his ex were married for 11 years and had 3 children together. My brother's ex wife always complained that my brother was a horrible husband, a lousy father, etc. I am not defending him, he really made a lot of mistakes. He cheated on his ex several times, didn't have any respect for her and always told me that he couldn't stand her but he didn't want to divorce her because he felt very guilty. You see when my brother had a serious accident at work and couldn't work for 4 years she supported him financially and stood by him ( at that point they were not even married) So my brother always felt like he owed a lot to her and couldn't divorce her. Anyway, my ex sister-in-law told me many many times that her life with my brother was h**l. But they had THREE children together! My brother didn't want to have kids with her and she was on birth control. Every time my brother seriously considered divorcing her she "accidentally" got pregnant ( she said she missed 1 pill). Maybe she thought that it was the way to "bond" with my brother...The stupid thing is that their marriage didn't improve after they had their first baby so why keep having children?
Why would a woman want to have 3 children with someone who doesn't respect and love her? If she was so miserable with him why would she stay with him for a decade and get pregnant 3 times? I know a lot of women who did the same thing and I am trying to understand why women do that. Now my brother and his ex are divorced and poor kids are suffering!
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