Why would a women do things like this? HELP?

Question

This ex of mine, keep comtacing me but one minute she is insulting me and the other minute she is saying sorry for acting like that? and that she will leave me alone now? and she wants to end things nicely?? Is this normal? Why would a women do things like this??

Answer 1

She's insulting you to get you to respond to her.  Then once she's got you talking to her again, she'll apologize and try to make up.  I'm not sure why she's doing it, other than she probably is not ready to let go.  I think the best thing is to just ask her not to contact you again, and then if she does, just ignore her.

Answer 2

i have to admit i did that with my ex, they want you to feel hurt so you need someone there for you and hoping that when they apologise it will be them x  

Answer 3

its called mood swings or umm she's  bipolar

or simply a  FREAK

Answer 4

d**n that woman is a lot like me!

Answer 5

It sounds like she still has feelings for you. Sometimes when we still have feelings for someone we come up with bullshit reasons to talk to them, like she insults you and apologizes. Haha we are confusing, that's for sure. =p

Answer 6

She sounds like a she is a physco.  If you want her to be gone stop taking her calls and she will take the hint.

Answer 7

today women are stupid and don't know what they want

Answer 8

Because she's a *****.

Answer 9

Is her name Sybil?

Answer 10

Be glad she's an ex.  If this makes no sense, imagine being with her and trying to figure out what she means half the time!!  These women want the last word and no matter what or how crazy it sounds she does get it.  And you're thinking of her too - like she's a loon, but she is on your mind...  

Answer 11

She's still pissed off and hurt, and she wants you to hurt too.  She still has unresolved issues and feels like the hurting won't stop until she resolves them.  Which will never happen.  She doesn't want to be with you.  It is probably best to avoid her calls, and let the whole issue just slip away.  It takes time to get over breaks like this, and while each of you heal I think it's best to have no contact.

Answer 12

This exact same thing happened with me and guess what? Now me and my ex wife are back together =]

Answer 13

From a woman? totally to be expected

Answer 14

Nobody knows for sure. Couold be she's trying to figure out what she wants to do in her life and has no time for a relationship.

Answer 15

Chances are she is bi-polar like me. I have a lot of different mood swings and they swing fast. One minute I'm sad next I'm happy then I'm depressed then I'm angry. She could have bi-polar.

Answer 16

Because we are insane.  

Answer 17

Well my opinion from experience, first thing I would do is ask her why do she do this. If she doesn't know why then I think she's confused right now. Now keep in mind that everyone has their own reasons. You see she may miss you at times she calls you and apologize for when she do negative things to you like insult you.

She may sometime reminisce on some of the good times in your relationships. That's when she feel that she can maybe try to be your friend and end on good terms. Deep down she may want that but it just be something that always flash back to her that she didn't like about whatever bad happened that caused the break up.

Now when she insult you and talk bad to you, it may be that she just be reminiscing on what caused the relationship to go bad. She may feel very bad, and hurt for that reason. She probably didn't expect anything like that or didn't mean for that incident to happen that way.

She may also be frustrated at this time in her life, and not meaning to take it out on you. You have to understand. Listen to her, tell her that accept her apology but she can't keep doing this.

Now of course she may say she will work on it, but if you still love her or consider her a friend, be there for her. both of you talk about it. Try to come to an agreement.

She may just be hurting right now. Understand, Listen, and Help. If not just ask her to politely move on with her life. Hope this helps.

Answer 18

because they still have feelings for u i did it to me ex so much he got the hint and asked me back out and we love each other

Answer 19

I know guys that do that kind of thing, too.  Just tell her to not contact you any more. After you tell her  block her number or just don't answer when she calls.