Why would he do this to us????

Question

I've been married for 5years to a man that,I truly thought was different.

About 5months ago I found out he was cheating. We argued talked and came up with a solution, we decided that we would do counseling to rebuild our marriage. Now just today i found out that he was currently communicating with this women, he goes to her home and she sends him messages stating that she miss him and she needs him. Right now I'm so ready to leave and get as far away from him as possible, but we have kids together and I have no place to go with me and the kids. My heart hurt so bad and it feels like I'm loosing it, I just can't take anymore lies and deceit, Please help me. I really don't know how to deal with this right now...

Answer 1

First go to the source of your existence God. Did you put anything away for a rainy day?  Dear it is raining on you and your children.  Get a plan stick to it until completion. Get help don't let pride stand in your way, it is more people going through this than you can imagine. Your family is in serious trouble, your family needs you to stand up and fight. Help your husband to understand that he is destroying his family he is being selfish and he is setting your children up for failure.  I pray that you and your family make it through this storm.  

Answer 2

I agree, go to God first. Seek His counsel first. forgive is a must. as for staying married, that's between you and God. cheating in my opinion is grounds for divorce.

do you have any family to turn to? friends nearby that could give you emotional support? if you don't have any money stashed away, work on it. you'll be amazed at how strong (emotionally, physically, mentally) you are.

my prayers are with you and you family.