Why would he keep doing this??

Question

my boyfriend is on a break from me, and is spending all his time hanging out with mates.i call him constantly and beg him to come back.one minute he says yes,the next no. i am pregnant with his child and he doesn't want to know.i do suffer bipolar and have problems.he still returns my calls, texts me and says he will meet me soon.why is he doing this? ans i know he is not cheating...YET

Answer 1

You are having some problems and, I am going to assume that you aren't on medication for your bipolar disorder because you are pregnant and may not be looking at this clearly now.  Leave him alone and let him have his space.  He needs to think about things and come to terms with becoming a parent.

You are having his child.  You need to focus on your health and the baby right now.  You do not need him around to do this.  Take the time he is giving you and work on getting yourself stable.  You need to be the best you can be, with or without him, when this baby comes.  

Answer 2

Because you are obsessed, that's why you keep posting the same question again and again. Lay off, already.

Answer 3

Hey the very first thing i would like to say is to be practical in life.

You should not keep blind faith on any one.

The things you have written about him, I think he is very confused. But at the same time he is also not willing to give you support.

Even I cant say he is cheating you. But if he really like you he have to take the strong decision for  himself.

Any ways take care and live your life as per your desire...

God Bless you..!  

Answer 4

There is only one explanation I can think of that makes sense:  Your boyfriend prefers the company of his mates over you.

If playing second fiddle is not something that you feel that you can live with, then you must ask yourself this question:  Am I better off with him or without him?  If the answer is "without", get on with your life as best you can; and when you are ready, do your utmost to connect with someone nice and new and ideally one who will put you first.

Answer 5

Quit asking this question. You know what the answer is or you wouldn't keep asking it. Maybe he is nervous about the impending birth and is feeling a bit trapped or maybe he is genuinely over the relationship. For GOD sakes, give the man some space. He'll come back if he wants to...you've already made it clear that you want him, now the rest is up to him. Or you could just move on. Good luck and congrats on the pregnancy.

Answer 6

This man doesn't want this kid that's what it boils down to you knew this and got pregnant to trap him and now you are only confused because it didn't work it made it worst.

Answer 7

How many times are you going to ask about this? Are you high?

Answer 8

Either he is cheating or he is getting high. I used to do that alot ( back in the day )  but i wasnt cheating.. lol

Answer 9

You've got enough problems, and beside that, you made a mistake by getting pregnant. Too bad. You may never be able to get rid of him, because he'll have to pay child support and might want to see the child for visitation rights. Best thing to do right now is to take a break from him for awhile and get the proper medication to help you with the bi-polar. Then go from there.  

Answer 10

he might just be frightened by having a baby. some men get like this. hang in there and try to find a support group. I would suggest not to call him anymore, as hard as it is if you stop calling him all the time you will see he will start hounding you and calling you non stop! good luck and congratulations on your pregnacy.

Answer 11

Not yet..exactly. Stop calling/texting him. If he wants to be around he will. YOU have a child on the way. Worry about the child and your own health. Its not your fault hes not around. SO what if youre bipolar/etc. Youre PREGNANT. He should BE there.  

Answer 12

He's not ready to handle a baby and he's probably having difficulty dealing with the bi polar disorder. Pregnant and bi polar is a double whammy. Maybe the boy is scared. He has a responsibility now and needs to step it up but you pressuring him is not going to make it better. You should think about these things before you are irresponsible and bring a child into the mix. Good luck.