Why would he say something like this?

Question

I was hanging out with my ex boyfriend's friend today and he told me that my ex said "he never wanted me, he just wanted to prove to his friends that he could" But his friend told me that it was hard to believe because when we were together he would always talk about me, with a huge smile on his face. Plus, he used to call me every single day. He told his friend that after he found out that we were starting to hang out. Why would he say that?

Answer 1

a typical guy thing to do. aiya

Answer 2

Sweetie, He is hurting and he is missing you, but is trying to put on a brave front in front of his friends and more importantly you because he know that his friend is going to talk to you about it....Of course he cared about you....He is trying to deal with the heartache and trying to be strong at the same time......

Answer 3

It's because guys are stupid. Simple as that.

But he might just be hurting or confused that you're gone and just decided to do that to make himself feel better.

I'm sorry he said that :(

Answer 4

guys are macho,  He doesn't like the idea of you with his friend so he's gotta be cool and act like he didn't care.  Which of course means he did.

Answer 5

Why are you hanging out with your ex's friend?  It is obvious his friend is telling you what you want to hear.  Never mess with your lover's friends nor your friend's lovers.  Only causes trouble for all.

Answer 6

gurlfriend u need a 1 to 1 time with oprah and bring your ex

Answer 7

His lying to save face

Answer 8

ha, aw

that is really confusing

you just kept saying he

so i didnt know who you were talking about.

and uh he probably just wants you :]

Answer 9

He's just saying that to get over you. Sometimes people have to say things to make them feel better about themselves so they can sleep better at night, that's all.

Answer 10

He is telling his friend this because he knows that you too are hanging out. He want to save face. Let him have it. He is probably hurt or confused that you are moving on. He also told his friend that because he knows that he would tell you...maybe he wants a reaction out of you.