Why would it take a guy two months to call a girl?

Question

like after he distance himself from you then he pops up out of the blue and calls . When the guy called me i told him i had a paper to write

Answer 1

He is done with the other girls who used to occupy his time. Honestly.

Answer 2

Sorry to say this but it's the old "he's not that into you".  Then everything else dries up and he's grasping at straws.

Answer 3

he misses you :]

give him a chance

how bad could he be

Answer 4

He may have been thinking of you for a while and had to get the courage up to contact you.  He may have been busy with other priorities and just got around to call you.  Bottom line is that he must have wanted to contact you or he wouldn't have called.  This means he has some interest in you.  If you dig him, call him back and talk to him, you guys may be right for each other.

Answer 5

IGNORE HIM. Please just learn from everyone else's mistakes. He's just not that into you - and calls you only when it's good for him. He's not that into you- but don't feel bad because there are millions of guys out there that will WANT to call you and be into you :) just keep looking. Tell that guy you don't want to associate with him, period. Trust me, save the heartache.

Answer 6

broke up with another girl?

Answer 7

He must be shy to call you because he likes you DUH!! Although you shouldn't punish him.

Answer 8

lovingme..., Maybe he was scared of rejection, his peers, whatever...  Who knows, maybe he lost your #.  Any variety of things.

Answer 9

He's a player

He's married

He was incarcerated

He's g*y

He's been away

He may have misplaced the number

He just got up the never

Are it could be a combination etc.....

The question is do you really want to be bothered or get on with your life.

Answer 10

because you never called him.

you are the one who wants the relationship.

call him.

maybe he thinks you don't care or is not interested.

i met a woman  at my 20th high school reunion that had a crush on me and she always wished i would ask her out. i though she did not like me so i never called on her.

don't wait for the guy you like to call. he may never call. so you need to call. sad thing is i had a crush on her. both need to communicate and take the risk

Answer 11

How the h**l are a bunch of anonymous internet users going to know the answer to such a ridiculous question?

Answer 12

backup - he thought he had a better offer that has since gone bust and he's falling on his backup

Answer 13

Maybe he's just really nervous--or maybe he had a lot going on in his life at the time--you never really know--but if he did call, that's kind of exciting anyway!

Answer 14

girl he had other girls that he had to attend or had a girl and now that he is not with her he saw your number and decide to call you. but what was his excuse for taking a lot of time?

Answer 15

ummmm... The dog ate his phone.

Answer 16

dont question it

Answer 17

Well maybe he is lonely...

or desperate...

or just ran across your number and said

"Hey , i miss her, I should call her!"

Answer 18

You know, things never change. Guys used to do that when I was young and that was a long time ago. For some reason, men think it is okay to say, "I'll call you" when they have no intention of doing so.

I'm glad you blew him off. He probably just broke up with whoever was keeping him busy for two months.

Answer 19

he may have been clearing his head, or not interested yet, either way good luck

Answer 20

personal problems....lost ur #.....lost of reasons

Answer 21

Probably nervous

Answer 22

dyslectic, those numbers get hard to read nah mean>?

Answer 23

thats what they call a "Booty Call"

Answer 24

My friends always encourage me to 'play hard to get' but I honestly don't think that's the policy. There can be a good handful of reasons: he's going through a lot right now, someone recently passed away, someone's in the hospital, parents are fighting, he's just confused about who he is. The fact that he called you so late means he was at least thinking about you. The fact that he even remembered (he is a guy) means he cares. I say look into it and stop the chasing games.

Answer 25

okay this one girl... most beautiful girl ive met gave me her number and she didnt answer it for about a month then i stopped trying and i called her again after 6 months

Answer 26

Sounds to me you're something like an afterthought to him.. Or maybe he's having personal issues and thinks he can run back to you to help solve them.

Either way, if he's affecting you negatively, I'd forget about him. Life is difficult enough without negative people complicating things too.