Why would my new boyfriend be a virgin at 34 years old?

Question

I am recently divorced and I started dating a guy about two months ago. We seemed to really hit it off and had a lot in common. However, I noticed he seemed to be a little shy or awkward and he didn't even try to kiss me until the 5th time he went out. Anyway, he eventually told me he is a virgin and had never been in a relationship before. He is 34 years old so I had a hard time believing it. When I pressed him why this is, he said he has always been too busy to date and just had other things to do. Part of me wants to believe him because I think it is noble, but part of me just can't accept his reasons. He is pretty good looking, a successful lawyer, owns his own home on a lake, and pretty funny and interesting. I just don't know why he would still be a virgin. What should I do?

Answer 1

I am a male, 38 yrs old, Lost my virginity at the age of 34. I slept with 7 different ladies since then, but NEVER HAD a relationship. No I am not g*y. Girls just never wanted to latch onto me. I tryed 3 dating sites, NO luck. I gave up the girl thing. I have been masturbating since the age of 14, and ive done it so much that I am impotent.
I learned and grew up to the fact that some things are not meant for some people, and that some people are not meant for certain things. it used to emotionally hurt me for so many years. now i just go with the flow. i may have s*x with a lady once every two years, but it dont feel good, and its too much work just for a nut.
  i wont tell my neighbors or co-workers, but i will tell anyone else. Go visit:  www.fixacar.net

Answer 2

I'm sick of people saying he's lying or g*y. This may be the twenty-first century, but some men are just really traditional. It's irrational to believe he'd lie like that to get you into his pants. I've never heard of a player using the v-card line to impress ladies. In fact, I think in most cases it would turn a girl off.
He probably treasured education and intelligence so much in life that relationships became a less important to him. Some women, like my ex, are virgins until they're in their thirties and nobody thinks they're lesbians, just career oriented women. But no, it's not okay for men to be career oriented anymore. It's the twenty-first century!
Anyway, my point is that if he has nothing to gain from telling you that and since he's an expert on his self, he is probably telling you the truth. I would suggest you to try an talk to him more about it --in a serious way. If it's true, he obviously would be pretty ignorant about the experience and would probably want to learn more.