Why would one of my best friends just stop talking to me? ?

Question

I'm 25 (just turned this weekend actually) and he's 40something. Anyway, I spoke to him on the phone about a youtube video I posted that had some clips of our July 4th celebration in it. He called back a bit later and said "funny stuff man. that was cool."

That was 10 days ago. I took a short vacation. He wasn't planning anything. His cell phone does ring, but it's always voice mail.

It's just wierd. We were playing music together regularly and all was well. He's an engeneer so I know he is busy at work, but he's always out by 4 or so.

Why would a friend do this? It's really killing me.

Answer 1

Maybe he has just hit a very busy patch in his life, and he isn't ignoring you on purpose, but just doesn't have the time atm. Or maybe he had some family issues come up as well.

I would give it sometime, and then if you don't here from him, try and get in touch again later...

I wouldn't hound him by calling to much, he needs his space.

Answer 2

That's the same situation I'm in!

Answer 3

he may be busy with something with work or his family, just try giving it some time. i hope things work out for you.