Why would they do this to me?

Question

A few months ago my "friends" at school ran away from me and said they didn't want me hanging around anymore. Since then I've been spending lunches and breaks on my own. I stopped eating lunch altogether because I was so embarassed of eating on my own in the canteen. A group of girls asked me to join them one day at lunch, and after asking for 3 days, I started talking to them and tried to be friendly, hoping we'd be friends. They then suddenly started being really distant and I heard from someone else that they didn't like me. Why would they suddenly just do that?

Answer 1

there was probably some stupid rumor about you or something... otherwise i dont think both groups would have done that out of nowhere

Answer 2

im sory that they did that to you did you do something really embaresing?  

Answer 3

Because your other "friends" probably told them nasty stuff (lies) about you.

Sounds like a lot of the girls at your school need to grow up.

Just act like you don't care. You don't want to be friends with these people anyway. Sitting with a group at lunch is not as scary as it seems. Talk to someone in class, and then find them at lunch and ask if you can join them.

Maybe stick to one or two really good friends you can trust, and don't bother with these girls anymore. don't even acknowledge their existence.

Answer 4

Omg!!!!  I am truly sorry about your situation.  Did you do something that ruin your reputation?  It sounds like they are not even your true friends at all.  Find another set of friends who you can trust, loyal, and making the best times.

Answer 5

They probably heard it from someone. Y'know people can judge. people can be b*****s.who cares what they think anyway? who would want to be friends with people like that! Why dont you start talking to some nicer people instead. people worth spending your valuable time on!

Answer 6

I really dont know hun, maybe this is a sick joke there playing? Please dont change yourself though, find friends who enjoy you. ( I would actually ask those girls whats up, be like "hey! wanna eat lunch?" if there all distant just be like "ok...if you dont like me tell me." Atleast then you will know!

Hope I helped. ( I have had alot of friend problems.. your not alone.)