Why would you do something like this?

Question

when you know that two people are in a happy and loving relationship, why the h**l do some people try to break it up? Like a girl will hit on my boyfriend KNOWING that he's with me and he'll even tell her "I have a great girlfriend...blah blah." And the same thing happens to me!!! A guy wanted my female friend to "hook us up" and she told him that I was already in a happy relationship. He says that it doesn't matter until there's a ring on my finger. WHY CAN'T PEOPLE RESPECT BOUNDARIES?! :( The second I know that a guy is taken, I completely back off because I would never want another girl to get hurt because I'm some kind of homewrecker so why don't other people get the same message?!

Answer 1

cuz people suck

and they don't give a ****

good for you that you're a good enough person to care though

=]

Answer 2

honestly, if your boyfriend and you feel strong about each other then there shouldn't be any real trouble. I would say the reason you're complaining about this is because you don't trust your boyfriend. Why not just take what people who are interested in you not seriously, but as flattery. If they get on your nerves just tell them to leave you alone. If you get in a sticky situation (Of if you have before) I can see why you're complaining, but overall I think you and your boyfriend are just fine.

Answer 3

its just because people want what they cannot have...and thats one of the ultimates sometimes i guess...

Answer 4

Fun and Challenging.  That's how Jerks think.  Sad but true they don't care who they hurt for their own pleasures.

Marco!

Answer 5

Some people like the thrill of catching something that is not theirs to take. People in a relationship are the forbidden fruit.

Answer 6

because some people are   s.luts    

Answer 7

Oh, Im going through this right now! Me and my fiance work together and they do it right in front of you!

I THINK they do it for a few reasons, if they are even KNOW you are in a relationship of course:

They dont care that he is taken.Some people have no respect for themselves or others.

They are jealous! Its just how some people are.Maybe they want what you have.Maybe they are trying to ruin what you have. (most of our co-workers stopped speaking to us when we got engaged.AND these were people that were previously "soooo happy for us" and thought we were perfect together..)

I dont know why but dont alot of people want what they cant have? Its the thrill of the chase.

Maybe they are getting mixed signals.Maybe your boyfriend is more friendly when you're not around? Ive seen that happen.That doesnt mean hes fooling around but maybe hes more outgoing and friendly when you arent around thus giving the other person the ok to be friendly back?

Its so tacky and pitiful to go after someone else bf/gf...but it happens all the time.part of being in a relationship, and if you're happy you're twice the target!

Answer 8

they are probably jealous or sadistic or bored :D

Answer 9

I wouldn't. So I don't know. It is probably just jealousy, low-self esteem, and selfishness.  

Answer 10

Some people are so egotistical that they believe that they should get everything they want, regardless of whether they actually can or not.

Others have such horrible self esteem that they need to validate themselves by proving people who are in happy, devoted relationships will leave their partner for them.

Some out there are so jealous that there are actually people who are capable of being happy in a relationship, and would do anything to destroy what they can't have.  

Still others just find it to be a game, "for the chase", and get bored after they've destroyed a perfectly happy home.

Unfortunately, there are many reasons that these homewreakers exist. The two of you just have to work your hardest to keep them at bay. But, don't worry, you sound like your in a good relationship and you don't have anything to worry about :) Just feel sorry for those fools, that their lives really are that pathetic.

Answer 11

  because some folks are so self centered that they still think the sun shines out their butts.They think they want you and do not care who they have to hurt to get what they want including you. they could never love you just use you. These are the ones who think they are God's own gift to s*x if you know the type. I have never cheated and never will, this is my law, it is respect for me and my girl. Others can stay out, glad to see you agree.  

Answer 12

Mostly this is done because that person is jealous.  They have never been in a loving and committed relationship and are determined to make everyone lose their faith in monogamous relationships like they did.  These pathetic excuses for human beings are to be ignored.  Hopefully one day they will all grow up.

Answer 13

Girls will do anything to get what they want, trust me.

Answer 14

cus some ppl are selfish and only care about what they want n dont stop to think about who might get hurt in the process...simple!

Answer 15

becuz they are just plain evil! i wish that more ppl would respect boundries it would make everything a whole heck of a lot easier!!! best of luck!!!

Answer 16

b/c they're *** holes who don't give a f*k about other ppl's feelings. they suck!