I can understand some special circumstances, like if you eloped and wanted to celebrate it with family and friends afterwards. Or if the ceremony site only held a limited amount of people (still not sure about that one).
Things like destination weddings I thought that you should go ahead and invite everyone to both the wedding and reception back home, it's just that most wouldn't travel to the wedding anyways. But if you want an intimate wedding because you're a private or shy person, then why would you want a bunch more people at the reception. Do you automatically become un-private and not shy for the reception?
And I really don't get it when people say they do it to save money. The ceremony isn't the expensive part, the reception is. It would make more sense the other way around, invite more people to the ceremony but not the reception (which we all know is very rude and tacky).
To me, that's kinda rude to invite someone to the reception but not the wedding
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