Why would you not like someone?

Question

for example everyday average joes not murders etc! im one of those people that like everyone and find things to like about everyone! i either ignore the bad or embrace the bad things!

how do you treat people you dont like! do you show them you dont like them?

Answer 1

I find it easier to dislike people than to like them. Liking people requires effort, and sometimes I just can't be bothered. People are, in general, a nuisance.

I treat people I dislike with nothing but absolute and bare-faced contempt. I make no attempt at all to mask feelings of dislike.

I will readily demonstrate my dislike for somebody by being confrontational, hostile and full-on aggressive. I won't hesitate to make life a misery for those I dislike.

It's fair to say that I never leave those I dislike in any doubt at all about how much I dislike them.

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr...

Answer 2

i find it very very hard to like people who are deliberately self centred and lack compassion for anyone...but i don't hate anyone

Answer 3

I dislike people who are insensitive and hurtful.

I usually avoid them as far as possible or just don't engage in much conversation if I'm stuck with them.

Answer 4

I tend to take people as I find them, if it turns out I don't like something about them then fair enough - I'm sure they could say the same about me! But if I really don't like them to a big extent, then I tend to just keep away from them, if I can. If I can't, such as in a workplace and have to work with them, then I do the job and get on with it. I don't have to socialise with them, after all!

However, there are a few times I have taken an instant dislike to someone, without even knowing them. I'm usually instinctively right on that score - plus they don't usually like me either. When that happens, I really can't be in thier company, as sparks would fly! If the other person doesn't not like me, then I may try and find something to like about them, but we would never be friends.  

Answer 5

I'm the same as you.  I take people as they come good&bad.  Unfortunately not all people are like that and tend to throw it back in your face.  I try not to stoop to that level, if I don't like someone I try to have as little interaction with them as possible instead of acting rude.

Answer 6

I simply won't talk to, hang out or associate myself with people I don't trust or like. Simply stated, to like you I must trust you; therefore, if I don't trust you, I don't like you and vice versa. I hate liars. I hate people who are rude and mean spirited.   I can not stand obnoxiously loud, immature, abrasive people. Overly cheap people annoy me to no end. I also do not like people who will stop at nothing to be the center of attention--including pretending to be drunk, acting S****y, acting stupid, etc. Also, nosey or pushy people get on my nerves. If people are that interested in someone else's life, it usually means they lead a very sad, pathetic life. These are not the kind of people you want to embrace. They will only cause you problems, headaches and heartache. Believe me.

Answer 7

I usually tolerate others. I will not tolerate anyone who abuses weaker (young/older/vulnerable) people or animals.

Otherwise, live and let live is the best way at least for me.  

Answer 8

I have a neighbor who I caught sitting in my yard one morning.  He had been lingering outside in my driveway for every bit of a half an hour.  I went out to talk to him and he immediately made haste out of my driveway(he had been sitting there in his car).  The only reason I knew he was outside was because my dog was barking like mad.

I asked him why he didn't come to the door and knock.  He proceeded to tell me that he had spoken to my roommates and that they had told him that I was asleep.

Later that day I asked my roommates if he had spoken to them that morning.  Lo and behold, he in fact had not.  So that means he had lied to me.  That's why I don't like him.  He knows full well that I don't.  I don't allow him on my property.  I have since found out that he has a reputation for being a petty thief.

I do not tolerate dishonesty from my friends even if it seems insignificant.  If someone would lie to you over something trivial, they will certainly lie to you over something important.

Good luck