Why would you want to be a Swinger??? Wouldn't you think you have enough in the one man / woman

Question

lol.......@ some answers, I have a swing out my back but i'm afraid of heights.....lol

Answer 1

being a swinger never tickled my fancy

Answer 2

i think its the loveless marriages that go for it. i think.

If theres true love in a marriage, you wouldn't even think of swinging, 'cos love & trust are entwined.

i believe in being Faithful.

Answer 3

Smoove G answer the Q - anyone who is sleazy is up for it!!!!!

I am not... yuk most swingers are just unhappy and pretending this does it for them - covers up for their dull lives....

Answer 4

one of them is to much for me.

Answer 5

maybe that's an alternate solution for my problem.Kevin always so sweet.  

Answer 6

No I wouldn't, not just because I have enough in my man but I respect my body. I think s*x should be special and between two people who have deep feelings for each other. In my opinion swingers are no better than dogs, satisfying their sexual needs, if that is OK with them, then fine but it would not do for me.

Answer 7

I never liked swings i could never get off them properly when i was a kid.

Answer 8

I don't have the space to start swinging around in my house...I might injure myself or damage something...

Answer 9

My husband was conceived as a result of a 'swingers' party.....

I should explain, his Mum and Dad were invited to a party by the local posh ollies. When they got there they were plied with all kinds of mad drinks( the 60's ! ) they started to get rotten drunk when things suddenly got a bit seedy at the party...they legged it saying his Mum felt sick.

Anyhow they got home rotten drunk with nowt else to do......Et voila. Mr Haz!

Answer 10

I tried swinging a cat once........

but the room was too small.........

thankfully my p*ussy only got bruised........

Answer 11

A question that I think most men would never ask. Anyways, people do not think they have enough in the man or woman, or they don't want to form connections. A swinger's life seems to be more "fun" to most people.

Answer 12

I would - if I had the right woman, but I don't have the right one right now, so... call me ;)

Answer 13

Probably people who have been abused as kids  

Answer 14

how boring would it be if we all enjoyed the same things??

Answer 15

Are you trying to tell me something honey?

Answer 16

This has always fascinated me on a psychological level, not a physical level.  I had a couple approach my husband and I and ask if we were swingers and a dinner party.  Laughed my a @ ss off.

Answer 17

i wouldn't want to be. I think most people in a serious relationship wouldn't either. some people get bored too easily. It's a shame.  

Answer 18

aint sure about being a swinger, but i can do ye

a twirl,,, close you're eyes.

Answer 19

Because a bit of variety is always a good thing.

Answer 20

Love and s*x, are two entirely different, and separate things for a start.

Swingers aren't bored or tired of their partners.  Swingers join the lifestyle for a number of different reasons.  My wife and I find it a great turn on, to watch each other give and receive pleasure, also, she is bi and that's a side of her I can't fulfill.

We think of ourselves as inclusionists.  As in we include others in our sexual fun.  There is nothing better than what we have at home.  Swingers aren't looking for anything better.  

The TV show that some child previously referenced, Swingtown, is not a very accurate portrayal of swinging.  Not even back in the 70's.

Swing couples don't have a medieval sense of ownership of their spouse.  Ownership is not equality, and produces jealousy and insecurity.  Swingers usually have rules and boundaries for comfort and respect.  Condoms are a must, and most men don't "complete the act" with their swing parter, and save it for their own loved one.  So the juvenile "sloppy seconds" remark previously posted doesn't fly.

Everyone has fantasies.  Swingers are honest enough to acknowledge them, and secure enough to act on them.

It can't hurt a good marriage, but will destroy anything less.  The divorce rate among swingers is far, far less than the "vanilla's" out there.

Answer 21

What's a swinger lol?

Answer 22

Why is this even cool again?  Is it because of that new TV show, which is LAME?  

I have enough in the person I'm with and I wouldn't want to share them with anyone else.  Sloppy seconds is not my style!