Why would your ex-husband?

Question

come over and expect s*x? I have not lead him on in any way, shape, or form. We do see each other often due to prior commitments before we split up. Because we spent so many years together, does this give him the right to get "a little"?

Answer 1

He is a man.

Answer 2

He probably feels safe with you. I mean, not like STD's but more like familiarity. But you mentioned that he expects s*x? That's going too far, & he has no right to even ask.

I have had thoughts of going to see my ex in the same way, although not "expecting" something, but it's that safe feeling I get when I think of her.

Answer 3

try boundaries

Answer 4

If it was a mutual wanting, fair enough, but he has no right to "get a little" - he gave that up in the divorce. Tell him that particular boat has sailed, and won't be coming into his port anytime soon.  

Answer 5

No, it doesn't give him a right to a "little". Tell him to grow up and move on.

Answer 6

Absolutely not! He has absolutely no right to expect s*x from you. Whatever your prior committments are, do you really have to keep them? I mean, if he's going to be a total ***, maybe it would be better for you to just give him the boot completely.  

Answer 7

give me a break.

"give him the right???????" c'mon now, you know d**n well it doesnt.

maybe he was drunk!!!! gees

Answer 8

Tell him to use the phone next time and tell him why. This is wrong of him to even expect s*x.

Answer 9

Ok, this is the 2nd time you've asked this. Here is the same answer:  

Good question? Now ask him. Why are you even friends with him? It is evident that you do no even like the guy. Push him away...he will go.

Answer 10

my answer is no. but it all depend on you, do you want to continue to have s*x with him or booty call? its clearly up to you how you feel about having s*x with your ex, if you don't want to have s*x with him tell him straight up when our marriage end so do the s*x.  

Answer 11

He thinks he can come over and get some any time he feels like it and you will not turn him down.  He has not accepted the fact that when there is a divorce, it also means no s*x with that person either.  They don't comprehend the fact that it is completely over.  My ex asked for the same thing.  So did an ex boyfriend.  They are jerks.

Answer 12

YOU HOLD THE KEY BABE...YOU CALL THE SHOTS..NOW THAT HE IS GONE...ALL RIGHTS SUSPENDED UNLESS YOU BREAK OR BEND THE RULES.

Answer 13

no but maybe  that is what he wants

Answer 14

my ex-boyfriend expected the same, but noone has the "right" like you said.  if there is something still there, that's one thing, but just because your together, you need to say no if you don't want to

Answer 15

noo tell him where to go...

my ex and i use to have a sexual relationship and then he wanted more than just s*x so i ended all contact with him except for when it comes to our three children...