Why would your ex husband?

Question

come over and say, "you didn't invite me over for dinner and I am starving" as he opens your fridge and looks around. WTF?

Answer 1

you should tell him that "he's never going to be invited again and show him the door." with your phone in hand and call the police. Don't just let him push his way in and still be in your life.

Answer 2

you shouldn't even allow him into your place, period. just ask him to leave three time and if he don't leave after the third time you ask him call the police. you have gave him 3 times to leave and don't get into any other conversation with him.  

Answer 3

Don't open the door. You owe him nothing.

Answer 4

My ex husband wouldn't do that.  He is fully aware that I would immediately go postal on his a**.  That just doesn't make sense.  Are you guys on friendly terms?  Maybe he was just trying to make a joke.  It was a lame one if he was, but that could be it.

Answer 5

Tell him you didn't invite him for dinner cause he is no longer part of your life and then tell him if he is so hungry go out and get something to eat cause its not your job anymore to cook for him.

Answer 6

I guess he really misses you.

Answer 7

ask him what up and tell him "i dont cook for my ex's" tell him youve already wasted enough time on him

Answer 8

Why are you still asking the same question?

Answer 9

Well either he has a key or you let him in... either way, that's a mistake on your part! You've made em' feel comfortable. You can't blame anyone but yourself. If you want to fix this, set some ground rules. Change your locks and do not allow him to come over unannouced and if he does then don't answer... that's how you fix that!  

Answer 10

Sounds like he is comfortable doing that. Hit him in the head with your broom and tell him to get out!  

Answer 11

Someone said that it was your fault for making him comfortable. I would question that.  We don't know about your past or present relationship.  Maybe he made himself comfortable without any help or encouragement from you.

Would you consider asking him?   You did not mention if you have any kids or any reason for continuing or improving the relationship you now have.  If there is, you might consider mediation or another means of dispute resolution to reach some agreement about future conduct - like staying out of your kitchen!