Whydoes he keep asking me out when i told him I like him as a friend?

Question

Okay I have recently become friends with this guy... We basically were introduced by this guy I use to date....This summer have has been calling me and texting me alot...I told him straight up that I don't want a boyfriend and we can be friends..He seemed find with that but now he keeps asking me out every chance he gets....One time i could've sworn he said," In order to take your virginity I have to be your boyfriend ." He was mumbling and when i confronted him he said forget it I never said that

He never listens to at alll..Every time i see him he will try to push up on me somehow..... Either hug me or hold my hand...I thought maybe we could be friends but I am just trying to be nice ... He is friends with a guy I use to date...It is too weird for me....I know his friend to him I was a virgin

Answer 1

Hes just not getting the message, maybe you are being to nice.

Answer 2

stay a virgin and tell him i'm not interested in going out with you, remember guys just want to get laid, i know cause I am a guy and respect my girlfriend's wishes and that means a lot to her, good luck!

Answer 3

You SAID he does not listen, so stop being "nice" and just tell him to "LEAVE ME ALONE - stop touching me or I will give you a black eye!"

Trust me, if words do not work, a good slap gets the point across real fast.  

Answer 4

I don't understand why you are saying you want to be friends with someone who touches you despite you not wanting him to, who does not listen to you, and who so obviously considers taking your virginity to be his highest priority.  Sometimes, you just have to tell someone, "Sorry, but I don't like you.  Please leave me alone from now on."

Answer 5

this is marriage and divorce forum not single and dating  

Answer 6

You have to let him know that you like him as a friend but he is beginning to make you very uncomfortable with his advances. Tell him that you would not like to give up on the friendship but if he cannot understand that is all you are looking for then you cannot have any kind of relationship with him. If he has been trying so hard it probably means he really likes you. Have you tried talking to your ex about it? Maybe your ex can set him straight bud to bud.

Answer 7

You're sending him mixed messages. You tell him that you don't want to date him, yet you hang out with him frequently. It's possible that he thinks you're just playing hard to get. If you really don't want to date him, you need to stop hanging out with him. He'll get the point.

Answer 8

Tell him to back off or you will put a restraining order on him.  You have been nice long enough now push back.

Answer 9

In my book "friends" do go out together.  Maybe you should redefine his relationship with you as something other than friends.

You can stop that pushing up on you, hugging and holding your hand... just stand away from him.  

Answer 10

Eww,he sounds like an aggressive creep. My advice to you is since you have already told him you want friendship only,you need to put some space between you and him. I wouldn't take his calls or respond to his text messages,he is thinking that when you respond to him,that there is a chance. You are not gonna be able to be friends with this guy,and really why would you want to be,he does not respect you,because he is not listening to you. Run girl,run fast! lol! Good luck!

Answer 11

tell him you aren't a virgin anymore- he might leave you alone.  Or he might want it more.  Hmmmm.  Maybe just ignore him and tell him he is too pushy and you don't want to have pushy friends.  good luck.  

He sounds obsessive.  stay away.  he doesn't seem to know what the word no means.  that is kinda scary.  do not be left alone with him.  he might rape you.  please becareful

Answer 12

He is already talking about s*x to you, and you're not even with him???  He has no game, and furthermore, he is bad news.  Any dude worth dating will try to get to know you first, not try to get with you.  I wouldn't even be friends with him.  You may develop feelings for him in the friendship and wind up letting him use you.