Wierd sexual question while pregnant about the baby??

Question

is it just me or when you and your partner try to get physical and the baby starts moving and kicking does it wierd you out and turn you off?

i know s*x wont hurt him but i cant concentrate and feel good when hes kicking me it feels kind of perverted to have s*x with him there moving

is this normal?

Answer 1

haha. I was wondering the same thing..

it is weird..

Probably not perverted even though it feels like it.

Answer 2

Oh yea, thats completely normal. If you didn't feel this way don't you think it would be weird? Just think the baby doesn't know whats going on, and its not like he will actually remember it. Lol, congrats and good luck!

Answer 3

Totally normal!!! If it weirds you out than it weirds you out. Nothing you can really do to change it until you have the baby.

Answer 4

be thankful you can, i've been told i can't until after bubs born as i have a low lying placenta. i still have another 12 weeks until my due date and d**n i've never been this frustrated in my life!!!! and yes it's normal, but the bub will be fine and what i found was most off-putting was my belly in the way with my other 2.

Answer 5

It would weird me out and be very distracting but I've been lucky and my baby- i am 7 months along- seems to fall asleep when my Husband and I are having s*x.

Answer 6

Well it would weird me out.. so you aren't alone in that.  I don't think I could have s*x with my girlfriend if she were pregnant, it would just seem disrespectful to the baby; i don't think I could wait 9 months just for that reason, though...

Answer 7

Yes, it's normal.  I can, however, assure you that it's not perverted and it won't hurt him.

Answer 8

It's completely normal and used to weird me out too. When I was pregnant with my first daughter as soon as she would start moving around that was it for me, I had to stop. With my second daughter it was a little strange but as soon as we started doing it she would quiet down and fall asleep. With this pregnancy it doesn't weird me out anymore. The baby falls asleep as soon as we start getting active so I put it out of my mind if he is moving around while we are in foreplay. He will be asleep soon.  

Answer 9

yes it is normal if you can find a way to help you get more comfortable then try it. like find a time were the baby is normally sleeping.