Wife has strong need to push her sexuality. Need advice.?

Question

My wife has always been very reserved sexually. She has always wanted to break that shell and I encourage her. She told me last night that after careful thought she really wants to be seen naked by another man other than me. Nothing else she said. so s*x or anything. And she said no in a situation where it is expected to be seen like a nude beach or doctors office or spa. We have a male friend coming to stay with us. She said she wants to walk from the hall bathroom to our room completely nude in front of him. She is very determined to do this and wants my support as she beleives this will help break her out of her shell. I am on the fence with this. I am not for it nor against it. Any thoughts?

Answer 1

be care-full

Answer 2

Man that's hot! I say do it and be in the corner so you can see him see her! And then beat the h**l out of it!

Answer 3

Ooooooooh!  Wierd!  She may be breaking out of a shell a bit too much!

I would think it would put the other guy into a VERY uncomforatle position...something that etiquette dictates NOT to do to people.

Answer 4

One thing leads to another.  I'm not saying that there is anything wrong with it but be careful.  She may just want a little excitement but sometimes these things tend to lead to other experiments and some people can handle them and some can't.  What starts out as simple can end badly.  The nude hot tub party is a good start. She will be around friends at her own home so she will be safe.  Good luck

Answer 5

You might alienate your friend, but if you feel OK about it, go ahead.  Your wife is more important. Chances are she'll chicken out anyway.  If she does go ahead, or not, either way, she'll have learned something about herself.  

Another idea: Why not send a pic of her nude to Hustler or some other mag where women are exposed? It would be s**y, and wouldn't hurt your friendship.

Answer 6

Don't think its a good idea. If your wife wants to be seen by another man, espically your friend, I think it implies something other than breaking out of her shell.

If you do it, use a complete stranger, like maybe at a hotel or something, don't use a friend unless you are willing to change your friendship with them forever.

Ever thought about the possibility that he may think your wife is hot and try tp pursue a relationship with her and since he helped her break out of her shell she may reciprocate?

Answer 7

Sounds like she is very immature.  Walking nude in front of another man is not going to solve anything.  Maybe she needs to speak with a s*x therapist rather than put your friend on the spot.

Being sexually reserved is not a bad thing.  What makes her think it is?

Answer 8

Why use this friend as your guinea pig? You may think your wife is s**y but that doesn't mean he will. And you have no right to try your experiment out on him without his consent first. You very well could anger and embarrass him.